Why Bartenders, Shot Girls, and Store Clerks Can Help You Attract Lots of Girls

Knowing how to build attraction is a skill which you MUST learn. While it's important to understand specific routines and approach techniques, you need to know how to attract a beautiful woman.

So how do you get practice?

It's simple…

You learn how to practice on good looking women!

Now the problem is many guys use attraction techniques when they meet women at a bar. Unfortunately this is one of the most challenging places to practice your game. A great analogy is like you're trying to 'run before you can walk'.

The good news is there are plenty of places to practice on beautiful women. What's great is they are REQUIRED to talk to you.

Let me explain...

In many industries, there is a group of beautiful women called 'Hired Guns'. While they are required to do their job, the hidden purpose of being a hired gun is to talk with people, especially men. Typically the only requirement to work at certain establishments is to be attractive and young.

In a way, their job is to present their company in an attractive manner. So they're "encouraged" to flirt and talk with guys.

What's great about hired guns is they MUST talk to you. So if you need to practice your attraction skills, then you can easily find a willing partner.

You can easily find hired guns a wide variety of locations. This can include:

• Trendy clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Banana Republic and Express for Men

• Bartenders at local watering holes and clubs

• Waitresses at places like Hooters

• Alcohol, beer promotion and shot girls at various locations

• Car show spokeswomen

My advice is to approach hired guns at the beginning of the night and "warm up" your flirting skills. Then when once feel comfortable, you can move on to other women in this location.

By practicing on hired guns, you'll be able to increase your attraction skills in a non-pressure environment. Then once you've mastered these techniques, you can try them on women who you've just met.

The Real Secret for Improving your Success with Women

How do you get better at talking to women?

It's easy...

...Simply talk to as many women as possible!

Now if you're like most guys, then you might have trouble with walking up to dozens of women each day and initiating conversations. If you're nervous and filled with tension, then you're chances of success will be minimal.

But there is a great technique you can use to talk to LOTS of women without have any fear of approaching. All you have to do is talk to the women who work at your local shopping mall.

Seriously, shopping malls are literally filled with attractive women in their 20's and 30's. All of them are working in the various clothing and retail stores in this location. All you have to do is walk into one and start browsing.

The great part is it's THEIR job to come talk to you. Once this happens just tell her that you're looking for a particular item.

For instance, if you're in a clothing store, ask for a clerk's help with picking out a particular sweater. Then when you're being helped, just practice your conversation skills. Tell funny stories, flirt with her and establish kino.

The best part of this technique is you're able to flirt without worrying about the income. This will help quickly eliminate any nervousness you have about initiating conversations with women.

Then when you've become comfortable initiating conversations with different women in a shopping mall, you can go out and practice your skills on women in a real dating environment.

Are Today's Socialized Women Really-Luts?

Even though millions of women now look, act, talk, behave and dress like what was known as 'slutty' years ago, does NOT make them sluts.

Yes, Christina Aguilera helped pave the way on that one. Though she actually does have (inner) talent, she's a total pricktease and sellout.

It's up to you as a man to know that. In fact, female sexuality is Not how sexy they look or how flaunting they can be towards men. Their sexuality is something completely different and I actually show you on my website.

I hate using that word 'slut' because it does not represent a woman's true sexuality and I've never ever directly called a woman that.

It's the greatest insult and undermines any and all integrity she would have more than anything else.

Sex itself is to be respected and one of the reason's that you'll consistently get there with new women is that you DO respect them and their decision to let YOU in. She has to trust you to let you in.

Women have to authentically know that you do NOT view them as a slut...they have to be reaffirmed before going with that ultimation.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world...millions of women flaunting and teasing men. Showing their T&A in photos on myspace isn't just for fun; it's their social alpha model of behavior and they're adapting to it more and more.

You have to know what it really is that it's a fantasy and that it won't get you to sex. You have to see beyond all of it to trigger her NATURAL sex drive which is really just opening the 'path' to be in a relationship with you to get the value she wants out of it.

I know, it's the greatest irony ever I know yet that's why you're so confused and thrown off around 'sexy' women. You've been conditioned to 'respond' to the stimuli of sexploitation.

Men are (have been taught to) confusing sexploitation with a woman's true sexuality and they really believe it too because the women are visually in front of them supposedly getting hot and turned on.

That's why you have to see it for what it really is; a conscious production of exploitation of a pre-existing (contract) relationship to influence the (buying) behavior of men in any and all forms.

In fact, ANY amount of sexploitation in any form is purely social based. Someone behind the scenes which you don't see has the true power there. How do I know this? Compare sexploitation to our pure biological nature.

Compare it to Natural Alpha women where you don't even think about sex with them yet are always comfortable and in the proper relational dynamic for real success.

This is the way it's been through history until blatant sexploitation came along and threw off the behavior of man.

So, just because the women you want are purely adapting their identity to their socio-cultural role models of actresses and soft porn stars doesn't mean that they are sluts at all.

That's just their 'social' character and their outward appearance.

Inside, they really are still innocent, intuitive and wondrous.

Bring that part out of them and you'll invariably get 'yours' because women have always been the 'path' to sex.

5 Instant Ways to Develop Superior Confidence Around Women

Let me ask you a question...

Are you one of those guys with absolute confidence in yourself and can attract women just through your presence?

If you're not, then pay close attention to this article...

Have ever noticed how certain guys seem to attract women despite their looks, money or social economic status. What all these men have in common is their superior confidence in themselves and their ability to project this attitude.

But what if you have no confidence when it comes to meeting and attracting women?

Well, you're in luck!

Confidence is actually something that can be developed, regardless of your dating background. So how do you do this?

It's simple! Just follow the 5 steps I'll outline in this article and you'll be on road towards developing superior confidence around women.

Step 1- Develop the right mindset

If you want to become an incredibly confident person, you need to develop the attitude that you'll NEVER fail. Now while you WILL fail from time to time, you have to create the mindset that failure is not a bad thing

Even when you fail, look at it as a learning experience and an opportunity to learn what went wrong. In essence, you're embracing any setback as a chance to learn from your mistakes.

Step 2- Practice confidence every moment of the day

In order to become confident you must practice this attitude all the time. It's not something you can turn on and off during specific periods of the day. That means you can't act like a confident person one time and then like a wuss during other periods.

If you want to become a confident male, you must ACT like a confident male- all the time!

Step 3- Fake it till you make it

There will be times when you don't feel particularly confident. But if you don't have this attitude you have to pretend like you do.

The old adage is true- you must fake it till you make it. By acting like you're confident, you'll at least give off the appearance of someone who is comfortable with himself.

The funny thing is over time faking confidence will actually lead towards to developing this kind of attitude.

Step 4- Talk to everyone around you

Now the key to becoming confident ALL the time is to engage everyone you meet in conversations. As you probably know, a lack of confidence is caused by an inability to become comfortable around the people we encounter in our lives.

The only way to overcome this is consistently start talking to people you meet. Ultimately the more you do this the quicker you'll develop superior confidence around women.

Step 5- Give off positive energy

Your final step to becoming a superiorly confident male is to give off positive energy everywhere you go. By being an energetic and fun person, you'll become somebody who women WANT to be around.

Just remember that energy and enthusiasm is something which should be shared with everyone near you. It's kind of like karma- the more positive things you do, the more it'll be returned back to you.

Superior confidence doesn't come naturally for many men. However if you learn how to develop and control it, you'll become the kind of guy who ALL women want to be around.

All you have to do is follow the five steps I've outlined in this article and you'll be on the road towards developing an incredible level of confidence.