Sunday, May 27, 2007

How Women Play Hard To Get

Woman playing hard to get in relationships is a very common scenario that men will face. We cannot really expect women to throw themselves to us, am I right? So how to we deal with women who play hard to get with us?

Sometimes, women think that playing hard to get is just a game and it is necessary in a relationship so as to create sparks. We cannot change their view on this, but we can definitely control the situation and turn the table around to our advantages by knowing how they play hard to get.

So, let me just point out some of the signs that you can pick up when you meet a woman who is playing hard to get with you:

1. You saw a woman in a pub and both of you exchange some eye contact. But after a while when you look at her direction, you find that she just look away and does not give you any attention at all.

But sometimes you can feel that she still does give you a few glances while you are not looking at her. In this case, I can be sure that she is in the game of playing hard to get. Do not expect her to approach you. Pick up your courage and go over to her table.

2. Another scenario is that you have just known a woman. But after the first night out, you do not receive any contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. You may ask yourself what exactly has happen as both of you had a fun night but now she is so cold to you.

This is a very common technique of playing hard to get by women. Trust me; most of the women that I know of will NOT make the first move of texting the guy. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her.

The 2 points above are some of the way that women can play hard to get with men. Do check out my book in my signature if you are interested to find out more about Why Women Play Hard to Get.

Lastly, while you are dating a woman, do have your own decision and retain your own character. Do not think that because she is playing hard to get with you, you must do things that will bring your pride down. You can turn the table around, if you know how and why they play it.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

4 Powerful Techniques to Hook Out With Women

In this article, I am going to share with you 4 very powerful techniques that you can use right away to attract any woman that you want. These techniques will improve your game instantly and tremendously if you apply them in the right way.

1. One of the most important techniques that you need to have is to know how to break the ice with women. Breaking the ice is more than just "opening lines". If you are using cheesy lines like "My eyes are just glued to you!" it probably will not work. Keep your opening line simple. A simple line like "Hey, my name is "so-and-so", what's yours?" may do the trick.

2. Next, you cannot show that you are being intimidated by her. You will need to be a bit cocky when you are meeting women. Most gorgeous women have guys coming up to them saying they are beautiful; you will need to be special in order to capture their attention. Instead of getting intimidated by her and falling head over heels for her, keep yourself calm. Treat her like any other woman that you have met before.

3. Apart from being cocky, be humorous in certain occasion. Crack jokes on her and make her laugh. Do not think that because she is so pretty, you do not make fun of her because you are afraid that she may be angry with you. She will not, as long as your jokes are funny, and showing the arrogance in you at the same time.

4. Women like to be leaded. The sixth sense of a woman is very accurate, as more or less she will know what you are thinking about. If you are thinking of having sex with her by inviting her to your house, she will know. She will not openly declare to you that she wants to have sex with you. But she will expect you to lead her into it. Therefore at the end of the day, it is still up to the guy to initiate it. I am not saying to force yourself on her; it is an insane thing to do. Lead her on while respecting her decision.

I have shared with you 4 of the most powerful attraction techniques that you can use right away to improve your dating game. Practice them often and you will definitely see results.

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Sunday, April 08, 2007

Are Today's Socialized Women Really-Luts?

Even though millions of women now look, act, talk, behave and dress like what was known as 'slutty' years ago, does NOT make them sluts.

Yes, Christina Aguilera helped pave the way on that one. Though she actually does have (inner) talent, she's a total pricktease and sellout.

It's up to you as a man to know that. In fact, female sexuality is Not how sexy they look or how flaunting they can be towards men. Their sexuality is something completely different and I actually show you on my website.

I hate using that word 'slut' because it does not represent a woman's true sexuality and I've never ever directly called a woman that.

It's the greatest insult and undermines any and all integrity she would have more than anything else.

Sex itself is to be respected and one of the reason's that you'll consistently get there with new women is that you DO respect them and their decision to let YOU in. She has to trust you to let you in.

Women have to authentically know that you do NOT view them as a slut...they have to be reaffirmed before going with that ultimation.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world...millions of women flaunting and teasing men. Showing their T&A in photos on myspace isn't just for fun; it's their social alpha model of behavior and they're adapting to it more and more.

You have to know what it really is that it's a fantasy and that it won't get you to sex. You have to see beyond all of it to trigger her NATURAL sex drive which is really just opening the 'path' to be in a relationship with you to get the value she wants out of it.

I know, it's the greatest irony ever I know yet that's why you're so confused and thrown off around 'sexy' women. You've been conditioned to 'respond' to the stimuli of sexploitation.

Men are (have been taught to) confusing sexploitation with a woman's true sexuality and they really believe it too because the women are visually in front of them supposedly getting hot and turned on.

That's why you have to see it for what it really is; a conscious production of exploitation of a pre-existing (contract) relationship to influence the (buying) behavior of men in any and all forms.

In fact, ANY amount of sexploitation in any form is purely social based. Someone behind the scenes which you don't see has the true power there. How do I know this? Compare sexploitation to our pure biological nature.

Compare it to Natural Alpha women where you don't even think about sex with them yet are always comfortable and in the proper relational dynamic for real success.

This is the way it's been through history until blatant sexploitation came along and threw off the behavior of man.

So, just because the women you want are purely adapting their identity to their socio-cultural role models of actresses and soft porn stars doesn't mean that they are sluts at all.

That's just their 'social' character and their outward appearance.

Inside, they really are still innocent, intuitive and wondrous.

Bring that part out of them and you'll invariably get 'yours' because women have always been the 'path' to sex.

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