Thinking Twice Before Marrying Your Russian Bride

Russian women are romantic and loving, but before starting a long term relationship with her be aware of the fact that you have a long way to go. Making her your Russian bride is a challenge, but one that is worth it. It may take a while before you reach her heart, and through that time you need to be careful not only with her traditions and language, but also with her personal values such as honesty and pride.

Russians are considered to be warm and easy going people, and Russian women are no exception to this. Russian brides are desired because of their natural charm, charisma, and the culture in which they enjoy so much. Many of these future Russian brides understand that marriage is a perfect solution for them, and most of them are completely ready for it, not only because they want to fall in love, but for practical reasons as well.

Russian women are quite emotional by nature, and these women are looking for an exact match, but at the same time they know that love is not everything. To fulfill all their dreams, they are not only looking for a romantic relationship with a man, but they want more such as a large house, security, and to support their lifestyle without any complications.

People who are looking for a Russian bride should keep in mind that the Russian people in general are proud and Russian women in particular have a high self-esteem. Men who want to share their life with a special woman from Russia should know that it will not be easy to adapt to the new habits they need to form to get through their daily life. Women who are ready to leave their family and start a new life with a man who is basically a stranger to them, also have requirements and sometimes they are more than what was expected.

However, these requirements can be lessened, and any misunderstandings can eventually be eliminated. It takes honesty from the man looking for a Russian bride, and the ability share not only the good characteristics of his personality as well as the ones that later could be problematic for the relationship.

Finding the right foreign bride might sound easy, but at the same time the above mentioned requirements of both sides of the relationship might cause difficulties down the road. Before taking the step towards marriage, any many who is dreaming of a fantastic easy going Russian woman should invest some time doing research about what they are really like. Their local traditions are important, as is the language they speak.

The barrier regarding the different languages can be overcome by taking lessons in Russian, and you can also study the customs to try to understand the psychology of the Russian women. This prevents the cultural shock that you may experience as the relationship progresses. The result not only gives you knowledge about the Russian woman, but it also takes a little pressure off of them to fulfill your idealized dream of a Russian bride which may affect them negatively.

If your time is valuable, you can always hire a matchmaker, or agency that specializes in the field of foreign marriages. They are the people that are knowledgeable of the traditions and can help you with some of the legal barriers that may arise. They will also give you good advice about the etiquette that is important when you meet the family of your Russian bride.

Just listen to your heart. Make sure you have true feelings toward your Russian bride, and be sure that she is having these same feelings, and not just using you as a way to ensure herself a good life.

There Is No Such Thing As Equality When It Comes To Dating

Thanks to the politically correct world that some people would like everyone to live in.

Many men have interpreted equality in the work place to also mean equality when it comes to dating.

Mainly, men want to know, why women don't approach men.

The list is endless as to the reasons why women do not approach men, however, one of the main reasons is women don't have to because a real man will approach her if he is attracted to her looks.

The truth of the matter is, it shouldn't even matter if she approached you or not because you need to be on your way to approaching her in the first place.

It is much easier for you as a man to approach the woman that you are attracted to than it is to have every woman approach you and hope that the one you are attracted to is able to make herself seen once she gets to the front of the line.

The real question men who ask, why women don't approach men is; why am I not approaching women that I might be interested in?

Once as a man you begin to ask the real questions and solve the right problems, you will find yourself having the type of women that you want in your life and forgetting why women don't approach men.

Even better, lets pretend for a moment you were able to discover all the reasons why women don't approach men.

In the end, she still wouldn't be approaching you when you wanted.

The only way to guarantee you meet a woman is to approach her yourself.

How To Have Super Sexy Body Language That Naturally Attracts Women

Most men have naturally bad body language that turns women off. The good news is that simply by
following a few tips, you can immediately stand out from the other guys. Here are four surefire tips that will improve your body language and increase your attractiveness to women.

1. Don't lean towards her. Leaning towards women demonstrate neediness and that is highly unattractive. Relax, and lean slightly way from your target when talking to her.

2. Always look up. Always keep your head up so that you look in control and positive. Looking at your feet demonstrates lower value.

3. Walk slowly. Be steady when you walk. Be confident and comfortable with yourself when you walk, especially when you are in a club. Don't be caught up with people rushing from place to place.

4. Don't fidget. This one should be obvious. Fidgety behavior implies nervousness, and is never attractive to women.

One practical way to be aware of your body language is to have your friend (or wing, when you go to a club to purposely pick women up) and ask him to observe you for a period of time when you interact with women. Later, get his feedback on your body language - whether you are leaning forward too much when you talk to your target, or if you fidget, for example.

By following these tips, you will appear more confident and in control. This will make you stand out among the guys in the same room, and improve your attractiveness in women's eyes.

Spice Up Your Sex Life With These "O" Tips

Watching TV? Take commercials to another level! "Fool around" during commercial time. Tease, temp and talk to your partner - but only while the commercials are on. Write down actions like lick, suck, caress and body parts like chest, legs and breasts. Put those slips of paper in a hat and draw them at the end of the commercial. The anticipation for the next commercial break should grow (among other things!). Hands off during the regular program. Don't be surprised if your partner becomes a channel surfer - looking for commercials!

You did what with Checkers? Pick a fun, simple and competitive game to play with your partner and inform them that the winner gets to share a sexual fantasy that they have never experienced. If you loose - you must fulfill your partner's fantasy.

It pays to write Have you ever kept a diary? How about a sex diary? In a sex diary, you can express your feelings about sex and intimacy. Keep a journal of your sexual fantasies and erotic secrets. This benefits both you and your partner. You can leave your diary for your partner to find or you can copy just a page to heighten his/her interest. Reading about your thoughts and fantasies will open up a whole new form of erotic communication.

Take it off slowly Sexy lingerie can make any woman feel like a sex goddess. You are beautiful and lingerie only serves to enhance your beauty. You may not look like a model - but don't worry. Your partner will only being thinking about you! Consider a sexy fashion show! Take a piece off at a time - slowly. Tease your partner one piece at a time. Your partner won't be able to keep his/her hands off of you!

Code word - Sexy Do you and your partner have your own secret language? Most of us have a "get me out of here" signal that works at parties and gatherings. But how about a signal for a "quickie"? Five minutes can improve your day tremendously! Sometimes five minutes of love can be just as good as thirty! Leave a note or tell your partner your sexy code word or look. Next time your in a large group or after you have put your kids to bed, look at your partner and whisper your code word. Steal a few minutes of make-out time and forget about what you were doing. You'll both enjoy the passion when you are getting hot and heavy in a hurry.

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Dating Russian Girls for Widower Advice, Marriage Minded Women from East Europe, Way For You?

The Babel Talmud says: "If a widower marries second time, he will still always remember his first wife. Once Abraham Lincoln told a funny story that describes that saying:

"During the sermon, the priest said that Jesus was the only perfect man in the entire world, and there is no mention of a perfect woman in Tanah or anywhere else. And at that moment one woman in the church stands up and says embarrassed: I have been listening to stories about one perfect woman for the last 6 years! -And who is she?- asks the priest -My husband's first wife.

When wife dies, the world for a man becomes darker. Life without her seems to be empty and useless and very often a deep depression may occur in this situation. What's important is not to break down. Any person sometimes gets into terrible situations, often connected with close relatives death, but it is important to stand up and go on with life!

Majority of men feel uncomfortable to date women after their wives pass away. And that is why it is very important for a matchmaker to create special atmosphere during the process of introduction.

When you start your correspondence with an Eastern European (Ukrainian or Russian) lady, you should explain her your situation. Tell her why you are willing the new relationship and this explanation will make your relationship grow stronger.

Assure the lady that you are sincerely willing to start new life and not planning to look back at the past all the time. One very important thing is children, if you are not willing to have children in future, you should state that, because most of Russian and Ukrainian ladies want to mothers. In this case it will probably be better to find a woman who has a child already.

Don't try to find a lady who will be same as your late wife. It is impossible, as there are no same people in the world, it will only bring more sorrow to your heart, and second the girls who are you are meeting or talking to, will feel that she is being compared.

There are several ways to meet Russian girls nowadays. There are huge sites with multi thousand galleries and pictures of ladies from all over the Former Soviet Union. Another way is Personal agency, that doesn't have so many ladies, but personally interviews those ladies and does the pictures of them. The bad thing about a Personalized agency is that the fees of such an organization (if it really does the work) are rather high, they include running a full time office, advertisment campaign, staff etc. But the good thing is that a Personalized agency knows in person all the female clients.

Here's what an American guy says: The agency price is not low, and it takes a "leap of faith" to wire that kind of money to the other side of the world, but my result was excellent. I am now engaged to an exceptionally intelligent, beautiful Ukrainian lady. I know in my heart that she loves me dearly. In Ukraine, "love" is not an expression used flippantly as in the USA. it is an emotion with extremely serious gravity.

Wish you good luck in finding your soul mate!

Are Today's Socialized Women Really-Luts?

Even though millions of women now look, act, talk, behave and dress like what was known as 'slutty' years ago, does NOT make them sluts.

Yes, Christina Aguilera helped pave the way on that one. Though she actually does have (inner) talent, she's a total pricktease and sellout.

It's up to you as a man to know that. In fact, female sexuality is Not how sexy they look or how flaunting they can be towards men. Their sexuality is something completely different and I actually show you on my website.

I hate using that word 'slut' because it does not represent a woman's true sexuality and I've never ever directly called a woman that.

It's the greatest insult and undermines any and all integrity she would have more than anything else.

Sex itself is to be respected and one of the reason's that you'll consistently get there with new women is that you DO respect them and their decision to let YOU in. She has to trust you to let you in.

Women have to authentically know that you do NOT view them as a slut...they have to be reaffirmed before going with that ultimation.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world...millions of women flaunting and teasing men. Showing their T&A in photos on myspace isn't just for fun; it's their social alpha model of behavior and they're adapting to it more and more.

You have to know what it really is that it's a fantasy and that it won't get you to sex. You have to see beyond all of it to trigger her NATURAL sex drive which is really just opening the 'path' to be in a relationship with you to get the value she wants out of it.

I know, it's the greatest irony ever I know yet that's why you're so confused and thrown off around 'sexy' women. You've been conditioned to 'respond' to the stimuli of sexploitation.

Men are (have been taught to) confusing sexploitation with a woman's true sexuality and they really believe it too because the women are visually in front of them supposedly getting hot and turned on.

That's why you have to see it for what it really is; a conscious production of exploitation of a pre-existing (contract) relationship to influence the (buying) behavior of men in any and all forms.

In fact, ANY amount of sexploitation in any form is purely social based. Someone behind the scenes which you don't see has the true power there. How do I know this? Compare sexploitation to our pure biological nature.

Compare it to Natural Alpha women where you don't even think about sex with them yet are always comfortable and in the proper relational dynamic for real success.

This is the way it's been through history until blatant sexploitation came along and threw off the behavior of man.

So, just because the women you want are purely adapting their identity to their socio-cultural role models of actresses and soft porn stars doesn't mean that they are sluts at all.

That's just their 'social' character and their outward appearance.

Inside, they really are still innocent, intuitive and wondrous.

Bring that part out of them and you'll invariably get 'yours' because women have always been the 'path' to sex.

Divorce - Finding Compromise

Getting a divorce is hard, even under the best circumstances. Whether it's the moment you look into your spouses eyes and declare it's over, the moment you find out your spouse is leaving, or simply the moment the signature actually hits the paperwork, it occurs for everyone the same. This is just plain hard.

One of the biggest challenges is that both parties have different view points and are trying desperately to compromise in many areas: finances, personal belongings and child custody rights. While they are all important, money seems to be the easiest one to fight about, because even aloud, the argument seems rational. Though while it seems the most rational to argue about, much of the bitterness comes from: if you only knew how I felt…
Myth: It is easier to be the one that is leaving, rather than being "left."

Truth: It is difficult to accept that your marriage has failed, no matter which side you are on. If you are being left, clearly you are not over your love for that person and wish you could stay together. Yet if you are the one leaving, you are left dealing with abandoning someone, removing children from a "family unit" and the prospect of choosing to be alone. It is sad, no matter which side you are on. Just different.

So, the question is, how do you manage a civilized conversation with this person you love or once loved, when both of you are hurt and angry with each other? It will no doubt be a challenge, but there are strategies that can help.

1 - Take a step away from how you feel now and remember that at one time in your life, you were certain this was going to be the one you loved forever. Try to visualize the love you had. Feel it and embrace it. Remember that it is what got you to where you are in your life right now.

2- Consider that if you are the one leaving, your spouse has not had time to prepare for this emotionally, even if you've been fighting for years. So you're place of forward action may not be where he/she is yet. Be considerate that they my need some time to process before making any decisions.

3- Consider that if you are the one being left, your spouse has no doubt been feeling the same hurt you are feeling now, but has been experiencing it for quite some time. It only looks abrupt because this may be the first time you are aware of it.

4- Acknowledge that you are both hurt. The person leaving is hurt because they feel they weren't getting what they needed. The person being left is hurt because they weren't ready to stop loving yet. Either way you look at it…the anger that is coming out is simply a reaction to the pain.

5- Try to remove yourself emotionally when dividing up personal belongings. Simplify everything the best you can and be reasonable. Listen to his/her words without trying to interpret what is really meant by it. It is just a couch. There may be many memories attached to the couch, but when it comes right down to it, it is just a couch. Is it worth fighting about?

6- Fighting over custody arrangements is a simple one. Just don't do it. Your children were brought into this world by both of you, and deserve to have the impact of both of you in their lives forever. Even if you parent differently and don't agree with how the other one parents, they are still an important part of your child's' life. Remember that just because you have declared you don't want to live with this person, your children have not declared that and should not have that declared for them.

7- Most importantly, when things begin to get heated, sit back and take a deep breathe and try to imagine if you were on the other side of the table. Take a deep breathe and remember what remains true: I am sorry this marriage didn't work and don't want to hurt you.

Divorce should not be a vindictive thing to do, but an action needed in your life so you can move forward and ultimately find happiness. If you feel anger and rage towards yours spouse, I recommend seeking counsel or finding a Life Coach to help you sort through the next stages in your life. Compromise will be difficult until you can let go of the anger, and will be an emotional roller coaster for many months, but all you need is a few hours a week, where you can be reasonable and rational and find a happy medium.

The sooner you can get to a place of reason, the sooner both of you will find happiness, which should be the ultimate goal of divorce, no matter which side you are on.

Don't Let Penis Size Stress You Out

In today's society there are a lot of cruel people out there that just can't wait to hurt the next person they see. I don't mean physically but rather psychologically. This has turned into a lot of stress and insecurity for guys with small penises. In this article I aim to just make you feel better about yourself no matter what the people around you say.

Guys suffer from several problems in today's society that make them shy away from intimacy. Being short, receding hair lines, bad teeth but there is one problem that is very hard to overcome for many men. This one problem is probably the leading reason that men shy away from intimacy. The problem is having a small penis. Because of this guys don't let them selves be accepted by women because in their minds rejection is just down the road. Having a small penis can create such emotional scarring that it will prevent a man from having any intimate relationships. No matter how much a man enjoys something he avoids it because of the embarrassment factor. Such things as going to the beach, playing sports that you have to change in a locker room for.

It doesn't matter what the girl says because the guy always thinks the worst. He thinks that finding a girl with a small penis is absolutely impossible. Most guys even think its worse then having bad hygiene. Patterns of shyness, suspicion and distrust are usually created through out their lives that making decisions on anything is usually affected. Social and private lives are ruined because of the guy's beliefs. He doesn't let anyone get too close because of fear that some one will find his secret out and expose him to the world.

As a man with a small penis you just have to get over it. You need to have relationships so you just have to decide if this is a good enough reason to wreck your life for. You can't compare yourself with porn stars and body builders. Would you compare yourself to Wayne Gretzky if you scored three goals in your hockey league? There are plenty girls out there who are looking for a fun, loving, caring and open relationship and to her the matter of your deficit will not be an issue. You have to learn to trust the people you care about in life. While there may be jerks who may make your life miserable it doesn't matter because you know that these aren't the people you want in your circle of friends anyway.

So the next time you turn this into an issue just remember out of the people you care about its probably just you creating your own problems. Just remember that friendship and love comes first.

Dale Mazurek