Sunday, May 27, 2007

How Women Play Hard To Get

Woman playing hard to get in relationships is a very common scenario that men will face. We cannot really expect women to throw themselves to us, am I right? So how to we deal with women who play hard to get with us?

Sometimes, women think that playing hard to get is just a game and it is necessary in a relationship so as to create sparks. We cannot change their view on this, but we can definitely control the situation and turn the table around to our advantages by knowing how they play hard to get.

So, let me just point out some of the signs that you can pick up when you meet a woman who is playing hard to get with you:

1. You saw a woman in a pub and both of you exchange some eye contact. But after a while when you look at her direction, you find that she just look away and does not give you any attention at all.

But sometimes you can feel that she still does give you a few glances while you are not looking at her. In this case, I can be sure that she is in the game of playing hard to get. Do not expect her to approach you. Pick up your courage and go over to her table.

2. Another scenario is that you have just known a woman. But after the first night out, you do not receive any contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. You may ask yourself what exactly has happen as both of you had a fun night but now she is so cold to you.

This is a very common technique of playing hard to get by women. Trust me; most of the women that I know of will NOT make the first move of texting the guy. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her.

The 2 points above are some of the way that women can play hard to get with men. Do check out my book in my signature if you are interested to find out more about Why Women Play Hard to Get.

Lastly, while you are dating a woman, do have your own decision and retain your own character. Do not think that because she is playing hard to get with you, you must do things that will bring your pride down. You can turn the table around, if you know how and why they play it.

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Friday, May 25, 2007

How Shallow Are You When It Comes To Women

A lot of people seem to think that a shallow man is someone who only cares about a woman's looks.

In almost all cases is absolutely correct except for a few men who prefer her money over everything else.

However, the real problem comes in determining who isn't a shallow man.

When it comes to this a lot of people (especially unattractive women) seem to think that a non-shallow man is one who cares about everything but her looks.

Yet, the truth is a non-shallow man cares about more than her looks even though her looks still play a very important role in the type of woman that he is with or wants to be with.

It is important not to be a shallow man because shallow men are more likely to end up with women who cost more than they are worth.

Once you realize that there are more than enough damaged and emotionally unstable women who have the ability to look good on any given night.

However, attraction must always play a role in the seduction process as being with a woman who is healthy and emotionally stable, but who you are not physically attracted to isn't any better than the man who is with a woman simply because of her looks; as you both are shallow just in different ways.

Truth is, the only thing that really matters is how happy does being with her make you and by happy I mean what does she give and provide for you that you actually want and what does it cost you.

As long as you are content with those two things the rest of the world doesn't matter.

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Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Why Bartenders, Shot Girls, and Store Clerks Can Help You Attract Lots of Girls

Knowing how to build attraction is a skill which you MUST learn. While it's important to understand specific routines and approach techniques, you need to know how to attract a beautiful woman.

So how do you get practice?

It's simple…

You learn how to practice on good looking women!

Now the problem is many guys use attraction techniques when they meet women at a bar. Unfortunately this is one of the most challenging places to practice your game. A great analogy is like you're trying to 'run before you can walk'.

The good news is there are plenty of places to practice on beautiful women. What's great is they are REQUIRED to talk to you.

Let me explain...

In many industries, there is a group of beautiful women called 'Hired Guns'. While they are required to do their job, the hidden purpose of being a hired gun is to talk with people, especially men. Typically the only requirement to work at certain establishments is to be attractive and young.

In a way, their job is to present their company in an attractive manner. So they're "encouraged" to flirt and talk with guys.

What's great about hired guns is they MUST talk to you. So if you need to practice your attraction skills, then you can easily find a willing partner.

You can easily find hired guns a wide variety of locations. This can include:

• Trendy clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Banana Republic and Express for Men

• Bartenders at local watering holes and clubs

• Waitresses at places like Hooters

• Alcohol, beer promotion and shot girls at various locations

• Car show spokeswomen

My advice is to approach hired guns at the beginning of the night and "warm up" your flirting skills. Then when once feel comfortable, you can move on to other women in this location.

By practicing on hired guns, you'll be able to increase your attraction skills in a non-pressure environment. Then once you've mastered these techniques, you can try them on women who you've just met.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

4 Powerful Techniques to Hook Out With Women

In this article, I am going to share with you 4 very powerful techniques that you can use right away to attract any woman that you want. These techniques will improve your game instantly and tremendously if you apply them in the right way.

1. One of the most important techniques that you need to have is to know how to break the ice with women. Breaking the ice is more than just "opening lines". If you are using cheesy lines like "My eyes are just glued to you!" it probably will not work. Keep your opening line simple. A simple line like "Hey, my name is "so-and-so", what's yours?" may do the trick.

2. Next, you cannot show that you are being intimidated by her. You will need to be a bit cocky when you are meeting women. Most gorgeous women have guys coming up to them saying they are beautiful; you will need to be special in order to capture their attention. Instead of getting intimidated by her and falling head over heels for her, keep yourself calm. Treat her like any other woman that you have met before.

3. Apart from being cocky, be humorous in certain occasion. Crack jokes on her and make her laugh. Do not think that because she is so pretty, you do not make fun of her because you are afraid that she may be angry with you. She will not, as long as your jokes are funny, and showing the arrogance in you at the same time.

4. Women like to be leaded. The sixth sense of a woman is very accurate, as more or less she will know what you are thinking about. If you are thinking of having sex with her by inviting her to your house, she will know. She will not openly declare to you that she wants to have sex with you. But she will expect you to lead her into it. Therefore at the end of the day, it is still up to the guy to initiate it. I am not saying to force yourself on her; it is an insane thing to do. Lead her on while respecting her decision.

I have shared with you 4 of the most powerful attraction techniques that you can use right away to improve your dating game. Practice them often and you will definitely see results.

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Sunday, May 13, 2007

The Real Secret for Improving your Success with Women

How do you get better at talking to women?

It's easy...

...Simply talk to as many women as possible!

Now if you're like most guys, then you might have trouble with walking up to dozens of women each day and initiating conversations. If you're nervous and filled with tension, then you're chances of success will be minimal.

But there is a great technique you can use to talk to LOTS of women without have any fear of approaching. All you have to do is talk to the women who work at your local shopping mall.

Seriously, shopping malls are literally filled with attractive women in their 20's and 30's. All of them are working in the various clothing and retail stores in this location. All you have to do is walk into one and start browsing.

The great part is it's THEIR job to come talk to you. Once this happens just tell her that you're looking for a particular item.

For instance, if you're in a clothing store, ask for a clerk's help with picking out a particular sweater. Then when you're being helped, just practice your conversation skills. Tell funny stories, flirt with her and establish kino.

The best part of this technique is you're able to flirt without worrying about the income. This will help quickly eliminate any nervousness you have about initiating conversations with women.

Then when you've become comfortable initiating conversations with different women in a shopping mall, you can go out and practice your skills on women in a real dating environment.

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Friday, May 11, 2007

Why Women Stop Talking To You Without Ever Ending It

Choosing to focus on things that don't matter and won't change is a good way to not get what you want.

The reason why I write this is so many, many men focus their energy on why a particular woman has stopped talking to him or won't return his phone call.

Now, if this were to only happen to men who are in long term relationships, I might understand.

However, when it happens to men who at most have went on a few dates with a woman, this I refuse to accept.

Mainly because any reason she has for cutting off communication with you isn't going to change your situation with her and if it does she will communicate that when the time comes.

Also, you knowing why she stopped talking to you might cause you to change something about yourself for no other reason than because she said so; even though you changing that about yourself won't attract you to her.

If you think or want to know what you should or need to change about yourself, asking a woman who doesn't like you now is the wrong person to ask.

Her reasons might be part of the reason why you aren't attracting a woman into your life or her reasons might just be reasons she just doesn't like and another woman would be perfectly okay with, or even find charming.

In the end, women who don't call you back, or end it without telling you, are the type of women you don't want in your life anyways.

So what is the point in worrying why they do what they do?

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Wednesday, May 09, 2007

8 Secret Flirting Signs You Must Learn Now

Looking for signs of flirting from a woman can be a challenge for many guys.

If you're like me, then you've probably found that it's hard to detect which women are using their body language to flirt with you. By being able to pick up on these subtle cues, you'll know if you're able to approach a woman and get her number.

Once you 're able to detect these hidden signals, you'll be able to increase your attraction and seduction techniques. In fact, there are 8 core signs of flirting which almost ALL women give off which show a high level of attraction and interest in you…

Flirting Sign #1- She's having TOO good of a time

One way a woman flirts is when she looks like she's having too good of a time with her friends. Whenever you see a woman laughing and joking, but constantly looking in your direction, you're being sent a clue that she wants you to see her as a fun person.

By acting in a gregarious and fun manner, she's trying to let you know that she's a fun person.

Flirting Sign #2- She makes subtle eye contact with you

An obvious sign of flirting is when a woman makes eye contact with you. When a woman looks in your direction and lets her eyes linger on you, then she's showing a somewhat aggressive sign of flirting.

Unlike other flirting cues, making eye contact is not so subtle way to show attraction. So if you see this sign, then you definitely know a woman is into you.

Flirting Sign #3- She checks you out

Believe it or not, women love to check out guys. They're just a little more subtle then most men.

A great way to detect if a woman is checking you out, is to see if she gives you the 'vertical scan'.

The vertical scan is when a woman will look at your face and then move her eyes from her feet to your heard. When a woman does this it means she's discovered something attractive about you and subconsciously wants to know more about you.

Flirting Sign #4- She'll takes a few seconds to preen

When a woman knows you've checking her out, she'll to her best to look good for you. Typically her actions will include preening and smoothing down her clothes/hair.

These actions are generally not a conscious thought. So she has little control over her demonstrating them. That means when you see them, you're getting an invitation to approach and start talking to her!

Flirting Sign #5- She opens herself up

Now once you've approached a woman, you need to look for classic signs of flirting. Then when you discover them, you'll be able to build instant attraction and rapport.

The first sign you should look for is if she "opens herself up" when you're talking.

Typically a woman will display an "openness" with her body language as a way to show attraction during a conversation. This is generally demonstrated with open body language like her arms spread and her wrists towards you.

Flirting Sign #6- She strokes her body

Another sign of flirting is when a woman strokes her neck or touches her hair. Also she might touch even her thigh! These signs of flirting are great because they're giving a deep connection to what's on her mind.

When a woman touches certain areas of her body, she's usually imaging what you could be doing to them.

Flirting Sign #7- She draws closer to your body

When a woman draws closer to you during a conversation she's attempting to create more intimacy. In addition she might also lower her voice to make a deeper connection.

Both of these flirting signs show a major sign that she wants to be closer and know you better.

Flirting Sign #8- She'll look longingly at your face, especially your eyes and lips

When a woman looks longingly at your face, she's sending you a flirting signal that she wants to be kissed!

If you spy a woman glancing her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, you're been giving a non-verbal invitation to kiss her. So when you see her doing this, act right away and...

Kiss her!

Then once you start kissing, you'll have taken that crucial step towards making things more intimate.

Now if you know how to look for all 8 of these signs of flirting, you'll always be able to know when a woman is interested in you. As a result, it'll be easy to build attraction, and work towards creating intimacy.

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Monday, May 07, 2007

Dangers Of Women Who Look Good But Are A Mess On The Inside

There is a certain kind of women that some men have a hard time letting go, even though deep down they know that leaving her would be in their best interest.

They type of women that I am referring to are women who look good but emotionally or psychologically have some real issues. In fact, her issues are usually made worse because of her looks as she can always find a man to put up with her issues.

Less attractive women don't have tit as easy as she is much easier to leave when she has issues because most men will see her for what she is - crazy, and move on.

The real problem is that many men believe when a good looking woman comes into their life, she is the only one that he can get that looks this good.

Many times, the only time he will let her go is when he has found another woman just as attractive who he knows likes him as well.

Holding on to a woman who isn't the one for you makes it that much harder for another woman to come into your life.

What is even worse, a majority of the women who will try and take you from the woman you are already with will have just as many if not more issues that the one you are with.

In the end, women who look good but have major issues are not a good choice. The longer you hold onto a woman like this the longer you will be without a good woman in your life.

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