Sunday, June 03, 2007

Russian Ukrainian Girls and Mail order Brides- Tips for Successful Hunting

One of the biggest blessings in life is to find a woman of dreams and have a family with her. After collapse of USSR thousands of Western men became interested in Russian and Ukrainian women. Russian mail order brides catalogues were spread by agencies and many men were using those services. Of course the whole idea of ordering a bride is wrong, even in Babel Talmud we are finding a negative note concerning this kind of meeting women: "You can't marry a woman, who you haven't met in person, otherwise you will find out later that she doesn't fit you, and she will become disgusting to you"

Anyways after several years men started to realize that it became too hard to find a wife using the list of addresses or picture catalogues sent by post. In the end of 90-ies, a new formation of Russian Women presenting organizations has arrived. A personalized agency is the one that has relatively small data base (it allows to remain personal towards both male and female clients), usually that kind of agency has a good web site, an office in prestigious area of the city, often has offices not only in Ukraine, but in EU and the US, and the services of such agencies are not cheap. You should always keep in mind your goal, and your goal is to meet a nice girl, who is sincerely looking for a nice guy like you. Only an agency with a serious advertisement campaign can attract young and attractive ladies to join, and only really reputable can actually chose among them to pick only those who are interested in getting married, that's what actually makes the service rather expensive, but providing that you are meeting somebody who you will spend the rest of your life with, it's not expensive at all.

After you found the Russian woman of your dreams and you both feel the chemistry, you start a very serious and long lasting process of applying for a Fiancée Visa. The process of bringing a lady in the country is different in all countries, but in the US it means applying for a K1 visa. The process of getting a visa takes from 6 to 9 months and requires lots of paperwork. But it's absolutely real to get a visa, be accurate with the documents and read carefully all the instructions. It seems like the US Government makes the period of getting a visa so long to make sure that both man and woman are still interested to be together even after such a long time being apart.

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Friday, June 01, 2007

Approaching Women

Women are definitely a different breed than men, and because of these differences you will find that the way men approach women and dating are very different than the way a woman would approach dating. This is why it is important to understand the way a woman thinks before you approach her if you want to maximize your success rate with getting close to her.

It is said that a first impression is made within the first minute or so of meeting someone. This impression is usually what will stick with a woman when she recalls you. This being said, I am sure you can understand why it is so important to make a great first impression if you want to have any hope of dating the woman later on.

First and foremost you need to always look your best. Sure you may just be going out with the boys for some football and beers, but you never know who will be serving you, sitting next to you, or whose girlfriend's friend might show up. So, even on those nights when you really don't feel like putting much effort into yourself, tough, make yourself look presentable before you go out.

Also with first impressions come first looks. When a woman walks into a bar she does a quick scan of the people there. Most of the time she is looking for friends she is meeting up with, but this scan also serves as a way for her to pinpoint losers and creepy guys so that she can avoid them during the night. As a general rule, you should try to be as un-creepy as possible. Just because the woman wiping down the bar table across from you can't see you staring at her butt, the cute blond across the bar, can. So, be a gentleman even when you think no one is looking.

Do not sit at the bar all alone and drown in your jack and coke. Going out for a few drinks should be a fun and social occasion so make sure you are having fun. A woman who sees you will see you having fun, and her impression of you, even before you ever approach her, will be more favorable. Do not drink until you are stammering and stupidly drunk and then walk up to a woman and ask her if she would like a drink. Women want a prince charming, not a booze-hound.

Also, before you ever approach a woman take some mental notes about her features, what she is drinking, and the type of people she is with. If it looks like the people she is having drinks with are business associates or clients, you can discreetly ask her for her number later, when she is not tying to stay employed. When you take notice of her features and you can be specific when you compliment her, then she will surely take note of your keen eye. When you notice what she is drinking you can avoid an embarrassing situation, like ordering her a drink when she is a recovering alcoholic. If the woman is drinking a soda offer to buy her another soda, if she is drinking a cosmopolitan then offer her that. Also, if she is with another girlfriend, offer to buy the friend a drink as well. This shows her that you are thoughtful and don't want her friend to be left out. Do not assume that since you like dirty martinis, that she will too, and buy her one.

Once you have gotten this far, you can finally walk up to her and talk to her. Just do not walk up to her with your tail between your legs as though she just beat you for peeing on the carpet. Walk up to her with confidence. You are the man and if you approach her with that attitude you will get a much more positive response. Remember, as a woman she is hit on constantly, and so for you to even stand a fighting chance, you have to stand out as an individual. Be cleaver and witty, but do not be overly arrogant or cheesy. When asking for her phone number do not act as though you are entitled to it, nor should you act like you only kinda sorta maybe want it. And if she tells you no, or rejects your drink offer, thus rejecting you, do not be discouraged, and don't let her or any one else know that you were upset by this rejection. Take it as it comes and move on; do not let it make you feel desperate because you may not be going home with anyone that night. The last thing that you want is to appear desperate to a woman. You want to let her know that you are the man for her and that you don't need her to be happy. Exude that kind of confidence when approaching women and you will do wonders.

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Sunday, May 27, 2007

How Women Play Hard To Get

Woman playing hard to get in relationships is a very common scenario that men will face. We cannot really expect women to throw themselves to us, am I right? So how to we deal with women who play hard to get with us?

Sometimes, women think that playing hard to get is just a game and it is necessary in a relationship so as to create sparks. We cannot change their view on this, but we can definitely control the situation and turn the table around to our advantages by knowing how they play hard to get.

So, let me just point out some of the signs that you can pick up when you meet a woman who is playing hard to get with you:

1. You saw a woman in a pub and both of you exchange some eye contact. But after a while when you look at her direction, you find that she just look away and does not give you any attention at all.

But sometimes you can feel that she still does give you a few glances while you are not looking at her. In this case, I can be sure that she is in the game of playing hard to get. Do not expect her to approach you. Pick up your courage and go over to her table.

2. Another scenario is that you have just known a woman. But after the first night out, you do not receive any contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. You may ask yourself what exactly has happen as both of you had a fun night but now she is so cold to you.

This is a very common technique of playing hard to get by women. Trust me; most of the women that I know of will NOT make the first move of texting the guy. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her.

The 2 points above are some of the way that women can play hard to get with men. Do check out my book in my signature if you are interested to find out more about Why Women Play Hard to Get.

Lastly, while you are dating a woman, do have your own decision and retain your own character. Do not think that because she is playing hard to get with you, you must do things that will bring your pride down. You can turn the table around, if you know how and why they play it.

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Friday, May 25, 2007

How Shallow Are You When It Comes To Women

A lot of people seem to think that a shallow man is someone who only cares about a woman's looks.

In almost all cases is absolutely correct except for a few men who prefer her money over everything else.

However, the real problem comes in determining who isn't a shallow man.

When it comes to this a lot of people (especially unattractive women) seem to think that a non-shallow man is one who cares about everything but her looks.

Yet, the truth is a non-shallow man cares about more than her looks even though her looks still play a very important role in the type of woman that he is with or wants to be with.

It is important not to be a shallow man because shallow men are more likely to end up with women who cost more than they are worth.

Once you realize that there are more than enough damaged and emotionally unstable women who have the ability to look good on any given night.

However, attraction must always play a role in the seduction process as being with a woman who is healthy and emotionally stable, but who you are not physically attracted to isn't any better than the man who is with a woman simply because of her looks; as you both are shallow just in different ways.

Truth is, the only thing that really matters is how happy does being with her make you and by happy I mean what does she give and provide for you that you actually want and what does it cost you.

As long as you are content with those two things the rest of the world doesn't matter.

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Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Why Bartenders, Shot Girls, and Store Clerks Can Help You Attract Lots of Girls

Knowing how to build attraction is a skill which you MUST learn. While it's important to understand specific routines and approach techniques, you need to know how to attract a beautiful woman.

So how do you get practice?

It's simple…

You learn how to practice on good looking women!

Now the problem is many guys use attraction techniques when they meet women at a bar. Unfortunately this is one of the most challenging places to practice your game. A great analogy is like you're trying to 'run before you can walk'.

The good news is there are plenty of places to practice on beautiful women. What's great is they are REQUIRED to talk to you.

Let me explain...

In many industries, there is a group of beautiful women called 'Hired Guns'. While they are required to do their job, the hidden purpose of being a hired gun is to talk with people, especially men. Typically the only requirement to work at certain establishments is to be attractive and young.

In a way, their job is to present their company in an attractive manner. So they're "encouraged" to flirt and talk with guys.

What's great about hired guns is they MUST talk to you. So if you need to practice your attraction skills, then you can easily find a willing partner.

You can easily find hired guns a wide variety of locations. This can include:

• Trendy clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Banana Republic and Express for Men

• Bartenders at local watering holes and clubs

• Waitresses at places like Hooters

• Alcohol, beer promotion and shot girls at various locations

• Car show spokeswomen

My advice is to approach hired guns at the beginning of the night and "warm up" your flirting skills. Then when once feel comfortable, you can move on to other women in this location.

By practicing on hired guns, you'll be able to increase your attraction skills in a non-pressure environment. Then once you've mastered these techniques, you can try them on women who you've just met.

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Tuesday, May 15, 2007

4 Powerful Techniques to Hook Out With Women

In this article, I am going to share with you 4 very powerful techniques that you can use right away to attract any woman that you want. These techniques will improve your game instantly and tremendously if you apply them in the right way.

1. One of the most important techniques that you need to have is to know how to break the ice with women. Breaking the ice is more than just "opening lines". If you are using cheesy lines like "My eyes are just glued to you!" it probably will not work. Keep your opening line simple. A simple line like "Hey, my name is "so-and-so", what's yours?" may do the trick.

2. Next, you cannot show that you are being intimidated by her. You will need to be a bit cocky when you are meeting women. Most gorgeous women have guys coming up to them saying they are beautiful; you will need to be special in order to capture their attention. Instead of getting intimidated by her and falling head over heels for her, keep yourself calm. Treat her like any other woman that you have met before.

3. Apart from being cocky, be humorous in certain occasion. Crack jokes on her and make her laugh. Do not think that because she is so pretty, you do not make fun of her because you are afraid that she may be angry with you. She will not, as long as your jokes are funny, and showing the arrogance in you at the same time.

4. Women like to be leaded. The sixth sense of a woman is very accurate, as more or less she will know what you are thinking about. If you are thinking of having sex with her by inviting her to your house, she will know. She will not openly declare to you that she wants to have sex with you. But she will expect you to lead her into it. Therefore at the end of the day, it is still up to the guy to initiate it. I am not saying to force yourself on her; it is an insane thing to do. Lead her on while respecting her decision.

I have shared with you 4 of the most powerful attraction techniques that you can use right away to improve your dating game. Practice them often and you will definitely see results.

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Sunday, May 13, 2007

The Real Secret for Improving your Success with Women

How do you get better at talking to women?

It's easy...

...Simply talk to as many women as possible!

Now if you're like most guys, then you might have trouble with walking up to dozens of women each day and initiating conversations. If you're nervous and filled with tension, then you're chances of success will be minimal.

But there is a great technique you can use to talk to LOTS of women without have any fear of approaching. All you have to do is talk to the women who work at your local shopping mall.

Seriously, shopping malls are literally filled with attractive women in their 20's and 30's. All of them are working in the various clothing and retail stores in this location. All you have to do is walk into one and start browsing.

The great part is it's THEIR job to come talk to you. Once this happens just tell her that you're looking for a particular item.

For instance, if you're in a clothing store, ask for a clerk's help with picking out a particular sweater. Then when you're being helped, just practice your conversation skills. Tell funny stories, flirt with her and establish kino.

The best part of this technique is you're able to flirt without worrying about the income. This will help quickly eliminate any nervousness you have about initiating conversations with women.

Then when you've become comfortable initiating conversations with different women in a shopping mall, you can go out and practice your skills on women in a real dating environment.

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