Picking Up On A Beautiful Woman

Let's face it, every man wants a beautiful woman by
his side. This has held true throughout history. Society,
the media, and even our own peer group has taught us
that picking up on a beautiful is reserved only for the
wealthy, the famous, or the really good-looking men. For
the most part this is true. Yet there are a small
percentage of men that have figured out what it really
takes to pick up on a beautiful woman.

If picking up a beautiful woman was easy, more men
would do it right? Unless you're a natural with women, this
can be one of the most difficult things you can do. A lot
of men look for the latest pick up lines, routines, or want
to know what topics would make for good conversation.
Some men even go so far as talking about their cars,
their career, the big screen television, or their home. What
they don't realize is that talking about these things sounds
insecure, desperate, and shallow. It also attracts the
wrong kind of woman.

My opinion on this is I want a woman who wants to be
with me for the way I make her feel and that she appreciates
my individual qualities that make me who I am. I don't
want to try and impress her because of what I drive, what
I live in, or any of the material possessions that I own. Men
who have to resort to that have no "game". By "game" I'm
talking about the different skill sets a man has to have in
order to approach a woman, start a conversation, build
rapport, build desire within her, and make himself the prize
to be chased and not the other way around.

Picking up on a beautiful woman all starts with the
foundation to your game. To have tight game or a solid
skill set to pick up on women just about anywhere you have
to have a solid base to work from. You would never build
a house on a weak, mud foundation, you would build it on
a solid cement foundation. The taller and bigger the
building, the deeper and stronger your foundation has to
be. So think of it this way. If you want to approach and
game a beautiful woman who is a 6 on a scale of 10, ten
being the most beautiful and 5 being of average looks, then
your foundation needs to be solid. If you want to approach
and pick up on a woman who is a 9 or a 10 you better have
a deeper and stronger foundation.

So what do I mean by having a solid foundation or solid
game? Let's break it down into a managable, basic core
of skill sets to focus on. The good news is that you
don't have to focus on all of them at the same time. Here
are just a few you need to be aware of:

1. The Approach
2. Building Rapport
3. Building Attraction
4. Building Natural Confidence
5. Conversation Skills
6. Obtaining Her Contact Information
7. Phone / Internet / E-mail Game
8. Setting Up The First Date
9. The First Kiss
10. Increasing Your Social Network

While we don't have the room here to talk about all of
them in great detail, let's talk about the first one to give
you an idea what I'm talking about. The Approach is a
huge part of your foundation because without approaching
a woman, you can never build rapport, which means you'll
never build enough attraction to obtain her contact
information. This is true whether you're online meeting
women or if you're in a bar, nightclub, super market, coffee
shop, bookstore, or where ever you find women.

A lot of men suffer from approach anxiety. Usually they
are thinking about the potential rejection or feel they
don't know what to say. The problem is that approaching
women is a learned skill, which means you have to do it
and do it often to refine your craft. Unless you approach
at least a dozen women this coming weekend, you're not
going to get better. "If you're a beginner you should
start off approaching at least one woman per day that you
do not know," says dating coach Rod Cortez. "Within a
90 day period, you should be approaching no less than
25 women per week."

This is now commonly referred to as "The Rule Of 25".
The reason why men are generally not good at approaching
women is that they don't do enough of it. Now let's
take a look at building rapport. One way men blow this is
that they come off as too needy, insecure, or desperate.
These kind of behaviors do not build any kind of rapport.
There are dozens of ways to build rapport. One common
way is to use a combination of your sense of humor,
confidence, and the ability to playfully tease when the
opportunity presents itself. When you treat a woman almost
like one of the boys or "like your bratty little sister", says
Dating Expert David DeAngelo, you are communicating that
her beauty does not intimidate you. You are also subtley
communicating that you are used to dealing with pretty
women.

Picking up on a beautiful woman does take commitment
and hard work, but here is the interesting thing: over
time you will find it getting easier and easier. After a
few months you will look back and wonder why you ever
worried about rejection or not sure on what to say.