Dating Advice for Women

Russian Ukrainian Girls and Mail order Brides- Tips for Successful Hunting

2007-06-03T15:43:00.001-07:00

One of the biggest blessings in life is to find a woman of dreams and have a family with her. After collapse of USSR thousands of Western men became interested in Russian and Ukrainian women. Russian mail order brides catalogues were spread by agencies and many men were using those services. Of course the whole idea of ordering a bride is wrong, even in Babel Talmud we are finding a negative note concerning this kind of meeting women: "You can't marry a woman, who you haven't met in person, otherwise you will find out later that she doesn't fit you, and she will become disgusting to you"

Anyways after several years men started to realize that it became too hard to find a wife using the list of addresses or picture catalogues sent by post. In the end of 90-ies, a new formation of Russian Women presenting organizations has arrived. A personalized agency is the one that has relatively small data base (it allows to remain personal towards both male and female clients), usually that kind of agency has a good web site, an office in prestigious area of the city, often has offices not only in Ukraine, but in EU and the US, and the services of such agencies are not cheap. You should always keep in mind your goal, and your goal is to meet a nice girl, who is sincerely looking for a nice guy like you. Only an agency with a serious advertisement campaign can attract young and attractive ladies to join, and only really reputable can actually chose among them to pick only those who are interested in getting married, that's what actually makes the service rather expensive, but providing that you are meeting somebody who you will spend the rest of your life with, it's not expensive at all.

After you found the Russian woman of your dreams and you both feel the chemistry, you start a very serious and long lasting process of applying for a Fiancée Visa. The process of bringing a lady in the country is different in all countries, but in the US it means applying for a K1 visa. The process of getting a visa takes from 6 to 9 months and requires lots of paperwork. But it's absolutely real to get a visa, be accurate with the documents and read carefully all the instructions. It seems like the US Government makes the period of getting a visa so long to make sure that both man and woman are still interested to be together even after such a long time being apart.

Approaching Women

2007-06-01T20:43:00.001-07:00

Women are definitely a different breed than men, and because of these differences you will find that the way men approach women and dating are very different than the way a woman would approach dating. This is why it is important to understand the way a woman thinks before you approach her if you want to maximize your success rate with getting close to her.

It is said that a first impression is made within the first minute or so of meeting someone. This impression is usually what will stick with a woman when she recalls you. This being said, I am sure you can understand why it is so important to make a great first impression if you want to have any hope of dating the woman later on.

First and foremost you need to always look your best. Sure you may just be going out with the boys for some football and beers, but you never know who will be serving you, sitting next to you, or whose girlfriend's friend might show up. So, even on those nights when you really don't feel like putting much effort into yourself, tough, make yourself look presentable before you go out.

Also with first impressions come first looks. When a woman walks into a bar she does a quick scan of the people there. Most of the time she is looking for friends she is meeting up with, but this scan also serves as a way for her to pinpoint losers and creepy guys so that she can avoid them during the night. As a general rule, you should try to be as un-creepy as possible. Just because the woman wiping down the bar table across from you can't see you staring at her butt, the cute blond across the bar, can. So, be a gentleman even when you think no one is looking.

Do not sit at the bar all alone and drown in your jack and coke. Going out for a few drinks should be a fun and social occasion so make sure you are having fun. A woman who sees you will see you having fun, and her impression of you, even before you ever approach her, will be more favorable. Do not drink until you are stammering and stupidly drunk and then walk up to a woman and ask her if she would like a drink. Women want a prince charming, not a booze-hound.

Also, before you ever approach a woman take some mental notes about her features, what she is drinking, and the type of people she is with. If it looks like the people she is having drinks with are business associates or clients, you can discreetly ask her for her number later, when she is not tying to stay employed. When you take notice of her features and you can be specific when you compliment her, then she will surely take note of your keen eye. When you notice what she is drinking you can avoid an embarrassing situation, like ordering her a drink when she is a recovering alcoholic. If the woman is drinking a soda offer to buy her another soda, if she is drinking a cosmopolitan then offer her that. Also, if she is with another girlfriend, offer to buy the friend a drink as well. This shows her that you are thoughtful and don't want her friend to be left out. Do not assume that since you like dirty martinis, that she will too, and buy her one.

Once you have gotten this far, you can finally walk up to her and talk to her. Just do not walk up to her with your tail between your legs as though she just beat you for peeing on the carpet. Walk up to her with confidence. You are the man and if you approach her with that attitude you will get a much more positive response. Remember, as a woman she is hit on constantly, and so for you to even stand a fighting chance, you have to stand out as an individual. Be cleaver and witty, but do not be overly arrogant or cheesy. When asking for her phone number do not act as though you are entitled to it, nor should you act like you only kinda sorta maybe want it. And if she tells you no, or rejects your drink offer, thus rejecting you, do not be discouraged, and don't let her or any one else know that you were upset by this rejection. Take it as it comes and move on; do not let it make you feel desperate because you may not be going home with anyone that night. The last thing that you want is to appear desperate to a woman. You want to let her know that you are the man for her and that you don't need her to be happy. Exude that kind of confidence when approaching women and you will do wonders.

How Women Play Hard To Get

2007-05-27T15:45:00.001-07:00

Woman playing hard to get in relationships is a very common scenario that men will face. We cannot really expect women to throw themselves to us, am I right? So how to we deal with women who play hard to get with us?

Sometimes, women think that playing hard to get is just a game and it is necessary in a relationship so as to create sparks. We cannot change their view on this, but we can definitely control the situation and turn the table around to our advantages by knowing how they play hard to get.

So, let me just point out some of the signs that you can pick up when you meet a woman who is playing hard to get with you:

1. You saw a woman in a pub and both of you exchange some eye contact. But after a while when you look at her direction, you find that she just look away and does not give you any attention at all.

But sometimes you can feel that she still does give you a few glances while you are not looking at her. In this case, I can be sure that she is in the game of playing hard to get. Do not expect her to approach you. Pick up your courage and go over to her table.

2. Another scenario is that you have just known a woman. But after the first night out, you do not receive any contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. You may ask yourself what exactly has happen as both of you had a fun night but now she is so cold to you.

This is a very common technique of playing hard to get by women. Trust me; most of the women that I know of will NOT make the first move of texting the guy. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her.

The 2 points above are some of the way that women can play hard to get with men. Do check out my book in my signature if you are interested to find out more about Why Women Play Hard to Get.

Lastly, while you are dating a woman, do have your own decision and retain your own character. Do not think that because she is playing hard to get with you, you must do things that will bring your pride down. You can turn the table around, if you know how and why they play it.

How Shallow Are You When It Comes To Women

2007-05-25T20:46:00.001-07:00

A lot of people seem to think that a shallow man is someone who only cares about a woman's looks.

In almost all cases is absolutely correct except for a few men who prefer her money over everything else.

However, the real problem comes in determining who isn't a shallow man.

When it comes to this a lot of people (especially unattractive women) seem to think that a non-shallow man is one who cares about everything but her looks.

Yet, the truth is a non-shallow man cares about more than her looks even though her looks still play a very important role in the type of woman that he is with or wants to be with.

It is important not to be a shallow man because shallow men are more likely to end up with women who cost more than they are worth.

Once you realize that there are more than enough damaged and emotionally unstable women who have the ability to look good on any given night.

However, attraction must always play a role in the seduction process as being with a woman who is healthy and emotionally stable, but who you are not physically attracted to isn't any better than the man who is with a woman simply because of her looks; as you both are shallow just in different ways.

Truth is, the only thing that really matters is how happy does being with her make you and by happy I mean what does she give and provide for you that you actually want and what does it cost you.

As long as you are content with those two things the rest of the world doesn't matter.

Why Bartenders, Shot Girls, and Store Clerks Can Help You Attract Lots of Girls

2007-05-22T20:43:00.001-07:00

Knowing how to build attraction is a skill which you MUST learn. While it's important to understand specific routines and approach techniques, you need to know how to attract a beautiful woman.

So how do you get practice?

It's simple…

You learn how to practice on good looking women!

Now the problem is many guys use attraction techniques when they meet women at a bar. Unfortunately this is one of the most challenging places to practice your game. A great analogy is like you're trying to 'run before you can walk'.

The good news is there are plenty of places to practice on beautiful women. What's great is they are REQUIRED to talk to you.

Let me explain...

In many industries, there is a group of beautiful women called 'Hired Guns'. While they are required to do their job, the hidden purpose of being a hired gun is to talk with people, especially men. Typically the only requirement to work at certain establishments is to be attractive and young.

In a way, their job is to present their company in an attractive manner. So they're "encouraged" to flirt and talk with guys.

What's great about hired guns is they MUST talk to you. So if you need to practice your attraction skills, then you can easily find a willing partner.

You can easily find hired guns a wide variety of locations. This can include:

• Trendy clothing stores like Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister, Banana Republic and Express for Men

• Bartenders at local watering holes and clubs

• Waitresses at places like Hooters

• Alcohol, beer promotion and shot girls at various locations

• Car show spokeswomen

My advice is to approach hired guns at the beginning of the night and "warm up" your flirting skills. Then when once feel comfortable, you can move on to other women in this location.

By practicing on hired guns, you'll be able to increase your attraction skills in a non-pressure environment. Then once you've mastered these techniques, you can try them on women who you've just met.

4 Powerful Techniques to Hook Out With Women

2007-05-15T15:47:00.001-07:00

In this article, I am going to share with you 4 very powerful techniques that you can use right away to attract any woman that you want. These techniques will improve your game instantly and tremendously if you apply them in the right way.

1. One of the most important techniques that you need to have is to know how to break the ice with women. Breaking the ice is more than just "opening lines". If you are using cheesy lines like "My eyes are just glued to you!" it probably will not work. Keep your opening line simple. A simple line like "Hey, my name is "so-and-so", what's yours?" may do the trick.

2. Next, you cannot show that you are being intimidated by her. You will need to be a bit cocky when you are meeting women. Most gorgeous women have guys coming up to them saying they are beautiful; you will need to be special in order to capture their attention. Instead of getting intimidated by her and falling head over heels for her, keep yourself calm. Treat her like any other woman that you have met before.

3. Apart from being cocky, be humorous in certain occasion. Crack jokes on her and make her laugh. Do not think that because she is so pretty, you do not make fun of her because you are afraid that she may be angry with you. She will not, as long as your jokes are funny, and showing the arrogance in you at the same time.

4. Women like to be leaded. The sixth sense of a woman is very accurate, as more or less she will know what you are thinking about. If you are thinking of having sex with her by inviting her to your house, she will know. She will not openly declare to you that she wants to have sex with you. But she will expect you to lead her into it. Therefore at the end of the day, it is still up to the guy to initiate it. I am not saying to force yourself on her; it is an insane thing to do. Lead her on while respecting her decision.

I have shared with you 4 of the most powerful attraction techniques that you can use right away to improve your dating game. Practice them often and you will definitely see results.

The Real Secret for Improving your Success with Women

2007-05-13T20:49:00.001-07:00

How do you get better at talking to women?

It's easy...

...Simply talk to as many women as possible!

Now if you're like most guys, then you might have trouble with walking up to dozens of women each day and initiating conversations. If you're nervous and filled with tension, then you're chances of success will be minimal.

But there is a great technique you can use to talk to LOTS of women without have any fear of approaching. All you have to do is talk to the women who work at your local shopping mall.

Seriously, shopping malls are literally filled with attractive women in their 20's and 30's. All of them are working in the various clothing and retail stores in this location. All you have to do is walk into one and start browsing.

The great part is it's THEIR job to come talk to you. Once this happens just tell her that you're looking for a particular item.

For instance, if you're in a clothing store, ask for a clerk's help with picking out a particular sweater. Then when you're being helped, just practice your conversation skills. Tell funny stories, flirt with her and establish kino.

The best part of this technique is you're able to flirt without worrying about the income. This will help quickly eliminate any nervousness you have about initiating conversations with women.

Then when you've become comfortable initiating conversations with different women in a shopping mall, you can go out and practice your skills on women in a real dating environment.

Why Women Stop Talking To You Without Ever Ending It

2007-05-11T15:45:00.001-07:00

Choosing to focus on things that don't matter and won't change is a good way to not get what you want.

The reason why I write this is so many, many men focus their energy on why a particular woman has stopped talking to him or won't return his phone call.

Now, if this were to only happen to men who are in long term relationships, I might understand.

However, when it happens to men who at most have went on a few dates with a woman, this I refuse to accept.

Mainly because any reason she has for cutting off communication with you isn't going to change your situation with her and if it does she will communicate that when the time comes.

Also, you knowing why she stopped talking to you might cause you to change something about yourself for no other reason than because she said so; even though you changing that about yourself won't attract you to her.

If you think or want to know what you should or need to change about yourself, asking a woman who doesn't like you now is the wrong person to ask.

Her reasons might be part of the reason why you aren't attracting a woman into your life or her reasons might just be reasons she just doesn't like and another woman would be perfectly okay with, or even find charming.

In the end, women who don't call you back, or end it without telling you, are the type of women you don't want in your life anyways.

So what is the point in worrying why they do what they do?

8 Secret Flirting Signs You Must Learn Now

2007-05-09T20:46:00.001-07:00

Looking for signs of flirting from a woman can be a challenge for many guys.

If you're like me, then you've probably found that it's hard to detect which women are using their body language to flirt with you. By being able to pick up on these subtle cues, you'll know if you're able to approach a woman and get her number.

Once you 're able to detect these hidden signals, you'll be able to increase your attraction and seduction techniques. In fact, there are 8 core signs of flirting which almost ALL women give off which show a high level of attraction and interest in you…

Flirting Sign #1- She's having TOO good of a time

One way a woman flirts is when she looks like she's having too good of a time with her friends. Whenever you see a woman laughing and joking, but constantly looking in your direction, you're being sent a clue that she wants you to see her as a fun person.

By acting in a gregarious and fun manner, she's trying to let you know that she's a fun person.

Flirting Sign #2- She makes subtle eye contact with you

An obvious sign of flirting is when a woman makes eye contact with you. When a woman looks in your direction and lets her eyes linger on you, then she's showing a somewhat aggressive sign of flirting.

Unlike other flirting cues, making eye contact is not so subtle way to show attraction. So if you see this sign, then you definitely know a woman is into you.

Flirting Sign #3- She checks you out

Believe it or not, women love to check out guys. They're just a little more subtle then most men.

A great way to detect if a woman is checking you out, is to see if she gives you the 'vertical scan'.

The vertical scan is when a woman will look at your face and then move her eyes from her feet to your heard. When a woman does this it means she's discovered something attractive about you and subconsciously wants to know more about you.

Flirting Sign #4- She'll takes a few seconds to preen

When a woman knows you've checking her out, she'll to her best to look good for you. Typically her actions will include preening and smoothing down her clothes/hair.

These actions are generally not a conscious thought. So she has little control over her demonstrating them. That means when you see them, you're getting an invitation to approach and start talking to her!

Flirting Sign #5- She opens herself up

Now once you've approached a woman, you need to look for classic signs of flirting. Then when you discover them, you'll be able to build instant attraction and rapport.

The first sign you should look for is if she "opens herself up" when you're talking.

Typically a woman will display an "openness" with her body language as a way to show attraction during a conversation. This is generally demonstrated with open body language like her arms spread and her wrists towards you.

Flirting Sign #6- She strokes her body

Another sign of flirting is when a woman strokes her neck or touches her hair. Also she might touch even her thigh! These signs of flirting are great because they're giving a deep connection to what's on her mind.

When a woman touches certain areas of her body, she's usually imaging what you could be doing to them.

Flirting Sign #7- She draws closer to your body

When a woman draws closer to you during a conversation she's attempting to create more intimacy. In addition she might also lower her voice to make a deeper connection.

Both of these flirting signs show a major sign that she wants to be closer and know you better.

Flirting Sign #8- She'll look longingly at your face, especially your eyes and lips

When a woman looks longingly at your face, she's sending you a flirting signal that she wants to be kissed!

If you spy a woman glancing her eyes back and forth between your eyes and mouth, you're been giving a non-verbal invitation to kiss her. So when you see her doing this, act right away and...

Kiss her!

Then once you start kissing, you'll have taken that crucial step towards making things more intimate.

Now if you know how to look for all 8 of these signs of flirting, you'll always be able to know when a woman is interested in you. As a result, it'll be easy to build attraction, and work towards creating intimacy.

Dangers Of Women Who Look Good But Are A Mess On The Inside

2007-05-07T21:00:00.001-07:00

There is a certain kind of women that some men have a hard time letting go, even though deep down they know that leaving her would be in their best interest.

They type of women that I am referring to are women who look good but emotionally or psychologically have some real issues. In fact, her issues are usually made worse because of her looks as she can always find a man to put up with her issues.

Less attractive women don't have tit as easy as she is much easier to leave when she has issues because most men will see her for what she is - crazy, and move on.

The real problem is that many men believe when a good looking woman comes into their life, she is the only one that he can get that looks this good.

Many times, the only time he will let her go is when he has found another woman just as attractive who he knows likes him as well.

Holding on to a woman who isn't the one for you makes it that much harder for another woman to come into your life.

What is even worse, a majority of the women who will try and take you from the woman you are already with will have just as many if not more issues that the one you are with.

In the end, women who look good but have major issues are not a good choice. The longer you hold onto a woman like this the longer you will be without a good woman in your life.

Thinking Twice Before Marrying Your Russian Bride

2007-04-25T15:56:00.001-07:00

Russian women are romantic and loving, but before starting a long term relationship with her be aware of the fact that you have a long way to go. Making her your Russian bride is a challenge, but one that is worth it. It may take a while before you reach her heart, and through that time you need to be careful not only with her traditions and language, but also with her personal values such as honesty and pride.

Russians are considered to be warm and easy going people, and Russian women are no exception to this. Russian brides are desired because of their natural charm, charisma, and the culture in which they enjoy so much. Many of these future Russian brides understand that marriage is a perfect solution for them, and most of them are completely ready for it, not only because they want to fall in love, but for practical reasons as well.

Russian women are quite emotional by nature, and these women are looking for an exact match, but at the same time they know that love is not everything. To fulfill all their dreams, they are not only looking for a romantic relationship with a man, but they want more such as a large house, security, and to support their lifestyle without any complications.

People who are looking for a Russian bride should keep in mind that the Russian people in general are proud and Russian women in particular have a high self-esteem. Men who want to share their life with a special woman from Russia should know that it will not be easy to adapt to the new habits they need to form to get through their daily life. Women who are ready to leave their family and start a new life with a man who is basically a stranger to them, also have requirements and sometimes they are more than what was expected.

However, these requirements can be lessened, and any misunderstandings can eventually be eliminated. It takes honesty from the man looking for a Russian bride, and the ability share not only the good characteristics of his personality as well as the ones that later could be problematic for the relationship.

Finding the right foreign bride might sound easy, but at the same time the above mentioned requirements of both sides of the relationship might cause difficulties down the road. Before taking the step towards marriage, any many who is dreaming of a fantastic easy going Russian woman should invest some time doing research about what they are really like. Their local traditions are important, as is the language they speak.

The barrier regarding the different languages can be overcome by taking lessons in Russian, and you can also study the customs to try to understand the psychology of the Russian women. This prevents the cultural shock that you may experience as the relationship progresses. The result not only gives you knowledge about the Russian woman, but it also takes a little pressure off of them to fulfill your idealized dream of a Russian bride which may affect them negatively.

If your time is valuable, you can always hire a matchmaker, or agency that specializes in the field of foreign marriages. They are the people that are knowledgeable of the traditions and can help you with some of the legal barriers that may arise. They will also give you good advice about the etiquette that is important when you meet the family of your Russian bride.

Just listen to your heart. Make sure you have true feelings toward your Russian bride, and be sure that she is having these same feelings, and not just using you as a way to ensure herself a good life.

There Is No Such Thing As Equality When It Comes To Dating

2007-04-24T01:12:00.001-07:00

Thanks to the politically correct world that some people would like everyone to live in.

Many men have interpreted equality in the work place to also mean equality when it comes to dating.

Mainly, men want to know, why women don't approach men.

The list is endless as to the reasons why women do not approach men, however, one of the main reasons is women don't have to because a real man will approach her if he is attracted to her looks.

The truth of the matter is, it shouldn't even matter if she approached you or not because you need to be on your way to approaching her in the first place.

It is much easier for you as a man to approach the woman that you are attracted to than it is to have every woman approach you and hope that the one you are attracted to is able to make herself seen once she gets to the front of the line.

The real question men who ask, why women don't approach men is; why am I not approaching women that I might be interested in?

Once as a man you begin to ask the real questions and solve the right problems, you will find yourself having the type of women that you want in your life and forgetting why women don't approach men.

Even better, lets pretend for a moment you were able to discover all the reasons why women don't approach men.

In the end, she still wouldn't be approaching you when you wanted.

The only way to guarantee you meet a woman is to approach her yourself.

How To Have Super Sexy Body Language That Naturally Attracts Women

2007-04-21T20:57:00.001-07:00

Most men have naturally bad body language that turns women off. The good news is that simply by
following a few tips, you can immediately stand out from the other guys. Here are four surefire tips that will improve your body language and increase your attractiveness to women.

1. Don't lean towards her. Leaning towards women demonstrate neediness and that is highly unattractive. Relax, and lean slightly way from your target when talking to her.

2. Always look up. Always keep your head up so that you look in control and positive. Looking at your feet demonstrates lower value.

3. Walk slowly. Be steady when you walk. Be confident and comfortable with yourself when you walk, especially when you are in a club. Don't be caught up with people rushing from place to place.

4. Don't fidget. This one should be obvious. Fidgety behavior implies nervousness, and is never attractive to women.

One practical way to be aware of your body language is to have your friend (or wing, when you go to a club to purposely pick women up) and ask him to observe you for a period of time when you interact with women. Later, get his feedback on your body language - whether you are leaning forward too much when you talk to your target, or if you fidget, for example.

By following these tips, you will appear more confident and in control. This will make you stand out among the guys in the same room, and improve your attractiveness in women's eyes.

Spice Up Your Sex Life With These "O" Tips

2007-04-12T06:20:00.001-07:00

Watching TV? Take commercials to another level! "Fool around" during commercial time. Tease, temp and talk to your partner - but only while the commercials are on. Write down actions like lick, suck, caress and body parts like chest, legs and breasts. Put those slips of paper in a hat and draw them at the end of the commercial. The anticipation for the next commercial break should grow (among other things!). Hands off during the regular program. Don't be surprised if your partner becomes a channel surfer - looking for commercials!

You did what with Checkers? Pick a fun, simple and competitive game to play with your partner and inform them that the winner gets to share a sexual fantasy that they have never experienced. If you loose - you must fulfill your partner's fantasy.

It pays to write Have you ever kept a diary? How about a sex diary? In a sex diary, you can express your feelings about sex and intimacy. Keep a journal of your sexual fantasies and erotic secrets. This benefits both you and your partner. You can leave your diary for your partner to find or you can copy just a page to heighten his/her interest. Reading about your thoughts and fantasies will open up a whole new form of erotic communication.

Take it off slowly Sexy lingerie can make any woman feel like a sex goddess. You are beautiful and lingerie only serves to enhance your beauty. You may not look like a model - but don't worry. Your partner will only being thinking about you! Consider a sexy fashion show! Take a piece off at a time - slowly. Tease your partner one piece at a time. Your partner won't be able to keep his/her hands off of you!

Code word - Sexy Do you and your partner have your own secret language? Most of us have a "get me out of here" signal that works at parties and gatherings. But how about a signal for a "quickie"? Five minutes can improve your day tremendously! Sometimes five minutes of love can be just as good as thirty! Leave a note or tell your partner your sexy code word or look. Next time your in a large group or after you have put your kids to bed, look at your partner and whisper your code word. Steal a few minutes of make-out time and forget about what you were doing. You'll both enjoy the passion when you are getting hot and heavy in a hurry.

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Dating Russian Girls for Widower Advice, Marriage Minded Women from East Europe, Way For You?

2007-04-10T03:40:00.001-07:00

The Babel Talmud says: "If a widower marries second time, he will still always remember his first wife. Once Abraham Lincoln told a funny story that describes that saying:

"During the sermon, the priest said that Jesus was the only perfect man in the entire world, and there is no mention of a perfect woman in Tanah or anywhere else. And at that moment one woman in the church stands up and says embarrassed: I have been listening to stories about one perfect woman for the last 6 years! -And who is she?- asks the priest -My husband's first wife.

When wife dies, the world for a man becomes darker. Life without her seems to be empty and useless and very often a deep depression may occur in this situation. What's important is not to break down. Any person sometimes gets into terrible situations, often connected with close relatives death, but it is important to stand up and go on with life!

Majority of men feel uncomfortable to date women after their wives pass away. And that is why it is very important for a matchmaker to create special atmosphere during the process of introduction.

When you start your correspondence with an Eastern European (Ukrainian or Russian) lady, you should explain her your situation. Tell her why you are willing the new relationship and this explanation will make your relationship grow stronger.

Assure the lady that you are sincerely willing to start new life and not planning to look back at the past all the time. One very important thing is children, if you are not willing to have children in future, you should state that, because most of Russian and Ukrainian ladies want to mothers. In this case it will probably be better to find a woman who has a child already.

Don't try to find a lady who will be same as your late wife. It is impossible, as there are no same people in the world, it will only bring more sorrow to your heart, and second the girls who are you are meeting or talking to, will feel that she is being compared.

There are several ways to meet Russian girls nowadays. There are huge sites with multi thousand galleries and pictures of ladies from all over the Former Soviet Union. Another way is Personal agency, that doesn't have so many ladies, but personally interviews those ladies and does the pictures of them. The bad thing about a Personalized agency is that the fees of such an organization (if it really does the work) are rather high, they include running a full time office, advertisment campaign, staff etc. But the good thing is that a Personalized agency knows in person all the female clients.

Here's what an American guy says: The agency price is not low, and it takes a "leap of faith" to wire that kind of money to the other side of the world, but my result was excellent. I am now engaged to an exceptionally intelligent, beautiful Ukrainian lady. I know in my heart that she loves me dearly. In Ukraine, "love" is not an expression used flippantly as in the USA. it is an emotion with extremely serious gravity.

Wish you good luck in finding your soul mate!

Are Today's Socialized Women Really-Luts?

2007-04-08T09:17:00.001-07:00

Even though millions of women now look, act, talk, behave and dress like what was known as 'slutty' years ago, does NOT make them sluts.

Yes, Christina Aguilera helped pave the way on that one. Though she actually does have (inner) talent, she's a total pricktease and sellout.

It's up to you as a man to know that. In fact, female sexuality is Not how sexy they look or how flaunting they can be towards men. Their sexuality is something completely different and I actually show you on my website.

I hate using that word 'slut' because it does not represent a woman's true sexuality and I've never ever directly called a woman that.

It's the greatest insult and undermines any and all integrity she would have more than anything else.

Sex itself is to be respected and one of the reason's that you'll consistently get there with new women is that you DO respect them and their decision to let YOU in. She has to trust you to let you in.

Women have to authentically know that you do NOT view them as a slut...they have to be reaffirmed before going with that ultimation.

Yes, it's the most ironic thing in the world...millions of women flaunting and teasing men. Showing their T&A in photos on myspace isn't just for fun; it's their social alpha model of behavior and they're adapting to it more and more.

You have to know what it really is that it's a fantasy and that it won't get you to sex. You have to see beyond all of it to trigger her NATURAL sex drive which is really just opening the 'path' to be in a relationship with you to get the value she wants out of it.

I know, it's the greatest irony ever I know yet that's why you're so confused and thrown off around 'sexy' women. You've been conditioned to 'respond' to the stimuli of sexploitation.

Men are (have been taught to) confusing sexploitation with a woman's true sexuality and they really believe it too because the women are visually in front of them supposedly getting hot and turned on.

That's why you have to see it for what it really is; a conscious production of exploitation of a pre-existing (contract) relationship to influence the (buying) behavior of men in any and all forms.

In fact, ANY amount of sexploitation in any form is purely social based. Someone behind the scenes which you don't see has the true power there. How do I know this? Compare sexploitation to our pure biological nature.

Compare it to Natural Alpha women where you don't even think about sex with them yet are always comfortable and in the proper relational dynamic for real success.

This is the way it's been through history until blatant sexploitation came along and threw off the behavior of man.

So, just because the women you want are purely adapting their identity to their socio-cultural role models of actresses and soft porn stars doesn't mean that they are sluts at all.

That's just their 'social' character and their outward appearance.

Inside, they really are still innocent, intuitive and wondrous.

Bring that part out of them and you'll invariably get 'yours' because women have always been the 'path' to sex.

Divorce - Finding Compromise

2007-04-05T15:15:00.001-07:00

Getting a divorce is hard, even under the best circumstances. Whether it's the moment you look into your spouses eyes and declare it's over, the moment you find out your spouse is leaving, or simply the moment the signature actually hits the paperwork, it occurs for everyone the same. This is just plain hard.

One of the biggest challenges is that both parties have different view points and are trying desperately to compromise in many areas: finances, personal belongings and child custody rights. While they are all important, money seems to be the easiest one to fight about, because even aloud, the argument seems rational. Though while it seems the most rational to argue about, much of the bitterness comes from: if you only knew how I felt…
Myth: It is easier to be the one that is leaving, rather than being "left."

Truth: It is difficult to accept that your marriage has failed, no matter which side you are on. If you are being left, clearly you are not over your love for that person and wish you could stay together. Yet if you are the one leaving, you are left dealing with abandoning someone, removing children from a "family unit" and the prospect of choosing to be alone. It is sad, no matter which side you are on. Just different.

So, the question is, how do you manage a civilized conversation with this person you love or once loved, when both of you are hurt and angry with each other? It will no doubt be a challenge, but there are strategies that can help.

1 - Take a step away from how you feel now and remember that at one time in your life, you were certain this was going to be the one you loved forever. Try to visualize the love you had. Feel it and embrace it. Remember that it is what got you to where you are in your life right now.

2- Consider that if you are the one leaving, your spouse has not had time to prepare for this emotionally, even if you've been fighting for years. So you're place of forward action may not be where he/she is yet. Be considerate that they my need some time to process before making any decisions.

3- Consider that if you are the one being left, your spouse has no doubt been feeling the same hurt you are feeling now, but has been experiencing it for quite some time. It only looks abrupt because this may be the first time you are aware of it.

4- Acknowledge that you are both hurt. The person leaving is hurt because they feel they weren't getting what they needed. The person being left is hurt because they weren't ready to stop loving yet. Either way you look at it…the anger that is coming out is simply a reaction to the pain.

5- Try to remove yourself emotionally when dividing up personal belongings. Simplify everything the best you can and be reasonable. Listen to his/her words without trying to interpret what is really meant by it. It is just a couch. There may be many memories attached to the couch, but when it comes right down to it, it is just a couch. Is it worth fighting about?

6- Fighting over custody arrangements is a simple one. Just don't do it. Your children were brought into this world by both of you, and deserve to have the impact of both of you in their lives forever. Even if you parent differently and don't agree with how the other one parents, they are still an important part of your child's' life. Remember that just because you have declared you don't want to live with this person, your children have not declared that and should not have that declared for them.

7- Most importantly, when things begin to get heated, sit back and take a deep breathe and try to imagine if you were on the other side of the table. Take a deep breathe and remember what remains true: I am sorry this marriage didn't work and don't want to hurt you.

Divorce should not be a vindictive thing to do, but an action needed in your life so you can move forward and ultimately find happiness. If you feel anger and rage towards yours spouse, I recommend seeking counsel or finding a Life Coach to help you sort through the next stages in your life. Compromise will be difficult until you can let go of the anger, and will be an emotional roller coaster for many months, but all you need is a few hours a week, where you can be reasonable and rational and find a happy medium.

The sooner you can get to a place of reason, the sooner both of you will find happiness, which should be the ultimate goal of divorce, no matter which side you are on.

Don't Let Penis Size Stress You Out

2007-04-01T10:13:00.001-07:00

In today's society there are a lot of cruel people out there that just can't wait to hurt the next person they see. I don't mean physically but rather psychologically. This has turned into a lot of stress and insecurity for guys with small penises. In this article I aim to just make you feel better about yourself no matter what the people around you say.

Guys suffer from several problems in today's society that make them shy away from intimacy. Being short, receding hair lines, bad teeth but there is one problem that is very hard to overcome for many men. This one problem is probably the leading reason that men shy away from intimacy. The problem is having a small penis. Because of this guys don't let them selves be accepted by women because in their minds rejection is just down the road. Having a small penis can create such emotional scarring that it will prevent a man from having any intimate relationships. No matter how much a man enjoys something he avoids it because of the embarrassment factor. Such things as going to the beach, playing sports that you have to change in a locker room for.

It doesn't matter what the girl says because the guy always thinks the worst. He thinks that finding a girl with a small penis is absolutely impossible. Most guys even think its worse then having bad hygiene. Patterns of shyness, suspicion and distrust are usually created through out their lives that making decisions on anything is usually affected. Social and private lives are ruined because of the guy's beliefs. He doesn't let anyone get too close because of fear that some one will find his secret out and expose him to the world.

As a man with a small penis you just have to get over it. You need to have relationships so you just have to decide if this is a good enough reason to wreck your life for. You can't compare yourself with porn stars and body builders. Would you compare yourself to Wayne Gretzky if you scored three goals in your hockey league? There are plenty girls out there who are looking for a fun, loving, caring and open relationship and to her the matter of your deficit will not be an issue. You have to learn to trust the people you care about in life. While there may be jerks who may make your life miserable it doesn't matter because you know that these aren't the people you want in your circle of friends anyway.

So the next time you turn this into an issue just remember out of the people you care about its probably just you creating your own problems. Just remember that friendship and love comes first.

Dale Mazurek

Is Your Girl Faking (Part 1)

2007-03-30T15:52:00.001-07:00

The statistics that I read say that 70% of women fake orgasms. So I guess that means there is a good chance that your and my girl are faking as well. What are we doing wrong? Maybe she's not comfortable with us or maybe were just not doing something right. Faking doesn't mean she's not enjoying it just means she's not enjoying to her full potential. So how do you know if she's faking? I am going to tell you.

There are two major ways that a woman achieves orgasm. One is with clitoral stimulation and two is having their g spot worked. It's usually one or the other but not both. You need to know what sends your girl over the edge. Chances are if you do something different and she orgasms then she is faking.

There are a number of ways to tell if your lady is faking her orgasm

1. You don't want to hear porn movie sounds coming out of your lover. Remember those girls are doing it for the camera so if she is making porn movie sounds then there's a good chance she is faking.

2. When the two of you are performing any sex acts and you decide to take a break for a minute and she keeps moaning, well you guessed it. This isn't a good sign. It's actually a good sign that she's faking.

3. If the two of you are making love and she is having an orgasm then her PC muscle should go nuts. It should be gripping your penis like there is no tomorrow.

4. One last thing is that she should breathe heavy for quite a while after an orgasm. If the breathing goes back to normal almost immediately then chances are she is faking.

Now these rules don't apply to all women. Remember everyone is different. However if you are seeing a lot of the examples above I would assume that she is faking. I don't know about you but if my woman is faking I want to know why. Is it me? Is it her? Is it both of us? I will get into the whys in the next article.

How You Can Be Happy And Fulfilled Whilst Being Single For The Rest Of Your Life

2007-03-21T17:28:00.001-07:00

It seems unheard of these days for an attractive person with a job and a life ahead of them even though they are recently divorced to consider remaining single and celibate for the rest of their life. What would inspire a person with opportunity to re- marry not to do so? What could be so attractive that could encourage a person to choose a single life? Come and read my reason.

My wife left me fourteen years ago, re married eight years ago, and for those past eight years I have not seen my 15 year old son. Since my wife left, in recent times since I have come to love myself I have had four women ask me to consider marrying them. Each of them were friends and when I told them that I couldn't do as they wish three of them didn't want to be friends anymore. That was sad.

Can there be a life so good, so exciting, so full and so full of purpose that you don't need a partner to be happy.

Well tell me folks can there be?

Let me tell you that my life is exciting, my days are full, I have a purpose, a destiny and dreams that I am seeing coming true and the presence and peace of God has never been as strong in my life then it has in the last two weeks.

As a male who has already had a child, I have a lot of happiness. Though I know I don't see him now, I am confident as an adult he will seek me out and I forgive my wife for stopping him seeing me. I did my bit to populate the world.

As a Christian I am set apart for God and I am excited to be like Paul and to walk with God as a single man. He admonished those that would want to serve the Lord that being single is best though he said that this is hard for some and if lust is too much for them they should marry.

Well let me say folks it takes a disciplined Christian life as male to conquer the sex drive and the compulsion to lust. In the Old Testament somewhere there is a verse that says that the anointing breaks the yoke. This means if you can get into the state where the presence of God in your life is strong then any addiction or bondage will be broken in my simple language.

It is such a joy to be a male that God takes his sex drive away as the anointing flows in his life. It is such a joy to walk down the street without wanting to take women to bed or undressing them with your eyes. It's such a joy to be able to speak to a lady and not be distracted by thoughts of wondering if you can date her.

God wants all of us devoted to Him. To choose to be single so that you can devote all your time to serving the Lord is a big decision yet it pays handsome dividends. When God knows you want to serve him fulltime he gives you big dreams and gets to work training you for something that it going to be very effective for him. A man or woman that chooses to lay down their life for God will always be rewarded in ways that will more then compensate.

It's not that I don't love woman. It's that I want my time to be fully devoted to typing articles, speaking and exhorting by brothers and sisters in the Lord. Instead of spending an hour with my wife each night telling her how the day was, I want to have that hour to be speaking to the Lord. Instead of having a wife lonely at home when I am away for a month I want to have people happy where I am knowing that I am free to stay in their city for as the Lord wills.

The love that I have for Jesus far surpasses many people that I know. My life is crucified for Christ. My only interest is to do his will and it seems that the more I have divorced myself from the things of the world, like the desire to own things, and buying things, the more he has given me to do and to spend my money on that is going to save souls and encourage Christians to live a better life.

What wife could live with a husband that spends his money on reaching souls every week and who does not agree with buying expensive things when cheap things can be worn instead? What wife could live with a husband who has no interest in a car, no interest in a nice house of his own and who teaches his children to live for Christ in a life of self denial?

Could you live with me?

Could you cope with a husband that has no interest in fashions, the media, the popular shows on TV, no interests outside of serving God with every cent he has and every hour available?

Are you a lady that could have my zeal? Living in cheap clothes with a cheep car and a rented government housing cheap rented unit. Could you live with a man that can't walk down a street without giving to the poor and who engages total strangers in conversation whenever you are out?

Are you a lady that wants to serve the Lord full time with all your heart, mind, time and money? Do you think God could raise you up in that ministry?

Sure he could!

Do you want to serve God and be a better use for him?

What about you men? Which of you could conceive being single from this point on and serving the Lord in the future full time? Who would deny themselves a love with a new woman for God so they can be more effective?

Do you have a vision?

Do you want to serve God?

Can you get excited about God using you in a mighty way?

God wants to use you all. He has a ministry you can all be a part of if you can only give him some of your time for free without wanting to be paid.

I challenge you seek the Lord in a way that you can serve Him. Ask him for the gift to serve him as a single person! It is a life that is rewarding.

Attracting Males Through Female Pheromones

2007-03-18T15:43:00.001-07:00

The desire to attract the opposite sex is a universal want. Human beings, animals and insects have the need to mate and reproduce and that is why it is important to send out a message that could attract a possible mate. Female pheromones are regarded as one of the best tools for the female species to attract a possible mate. According to scientists, females, regardless of their species can send out a message via the female pheromones to let the males know that they are ready for reproduction.

In the case of animals and insects, the response of the male on the message sent through the female pheromones can be quite overwhelming. In some types of insects, the radius of reach of the pheromones can be up to 6.2 miles. Since the message can reach a lot of males insects, chances are male insects will flock to the female. In some cases, the competition may become fierce that could result in death for some of the insects.

The role of the female pheromones in the reproductive process cannot be overly emphasized especially in the lower forms of animals. To cite a concrete example, let us take the case of dogs that are in heat. Studies show that female dogs that are in heat send out a scent or emit a form of chemical that the male dogs often recognize even at a distance.

As the male dogs receive the message from the female, the male becomes sexually aroused and may become aggressive. More often than not, male dogs that caught pheromones of the female dog would display symptoms of stress. Unless the male dog is released to seek out the female dog that is in heat, the male dog will become so stressed out that he could end up howling and barking throughout the day and long into the night.

Unlike in the case of animals where the female pheromones are considered as very strong, the female pheromones in human beings have a more subtle effect. According to researchers and experts, female human beings do send out sexual messages to the males -- however, such messages are more subtly conveyed.

Furthermore, unlike in the insects and other animals where the males are free to openly respond to the invitation of the female that is in heat, male human beings are thankfully prevented by social norms from going after the female like animals and insects do! Although, some men make one wonder...

Seducing Women or Men Using The Elvis Presley Phenomenon

2007-03-15T15:16:00.001-07:00

The results are in, rhythmic brainpower is one of the most seductive kinds of intelligence there is!

Researchers at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem studied the DNA from dancers and compared it with the genes of "tone deaf" people and people with two left feet. They found that musicians and dancers had key genes (the Serotonin Transporter and Arginine Vasopressin Receptor 1a) that played an important role in their particular personality type which includes traits such as having a heightened sense of communication, a sense of enjoyment and well-being, and strong spiritual awareness and traits.

For me, this is exciting news because it just goes ahead to confirm why a good sense of rhythm is emphasized in indigenous cultures rites of passage to adulthood. Initiates are told that musician and dancers are some of the most desired sex partners because of their ability to communicate their inner primal nature and raw emotions in ways that move the rest of us. Initiates go through rigorous training to develop their rhythmic brainpower not just because a rhythmic body is great when it comes to sex, but because when your sense of rhythm is great (not just good) you can tune into another person's inner primal nature and raw emotions - make him/her oblivious to him/herself and forget his/her circumstances in life and take him/her into another place, not theirs, not your own, but somewhere else.

This is a simple but powerful overlooked concept in "modern" societies. Many of us spend hours and hours on a date "downloading" stats, factual discussions, arguments, and proofs onto each other but still fail to leave an imprint on our dates. We fumble and lose our way in the web of verbalizing our emotions—"naming emotions," "talking about feelings," or "sharing our feelings" but fail to "transfer" emotional information to another person.

We fail to "get on the same wavelength", "keep up with the pace", "engage in the dance of courtship" etc. We are often either "off beat" or "out of sync" with the other's inner primal nature and raw emotions.

Call it the Elvis Presley phenomenon – you too can leave an imprint that makes a man or woman want to become you, together with you – not even death do you part – by simply increasing your rhythmic brainpower. When you are "in tune" with your inner beat, you can then easily tune in to your date's or partner's rhythm – and rock his/her world!

Check my websites for more information on increasing your rhythmic brainpower and seducing the opposite sex using rhythmic synchronization - invite interested partners with ease, move the man or woman you have your eyes on, make him or her feel what you feel, inspire him other to want to come to you and become you.

5 Instant Ways to Develop Superior Confidence Around Women

2007-03-13T20:00:00.001-07:00

Let me ask you a question...

Are you one of those guys with absolute confidence in yourself and can attract women just through your presence?

If you're not, then pay close attention to this article...

Have ever noticed how certain guys seem to attract women despite their looks, money or social economic status. What all these men have in common is their superior confidence in themselves and their ability to project this attitude.

But what if you have no confidence when it comes to meeting and attracting women?

Well, you're in luck!

Confidence is actually something that can be developed, regardless of your dating background. So how do you do this?

It's simple! Just follow the 5 steps I'll outline in this article and you'll be on road towards developing superior confidence around women.

Step 1- Develop the right mindset

If you want to become an incredibly confident person, you need to develop the attitude that you'll NEVER fail. Now while you WILL fail from time to time, you have to create the mindset that failure is not a bad thing

Even when you fail, look at it as a learning experience and an opportunity to learn what went wrong. In essence, you're embracing any setback as a chance to learn from your mistakes.

Step 2- Practice confidence every moment of the day

In order to become confident you must practice this attitude all the time. It's not something you can turn on and off during specific periods of the day. That means you can't act like a confident person one time and then like a wuss during other periods.

If you want to become a confident male, you must ACT like a confident male- all the time!

Step 3- Fake it till you make it

There will be times when you don't feel particularly confident. But if you don't have this attitude you have to pretend like you do.

The old adage is true- you must fake it till you make it. By acting like you're confident, you'll at least give off the appearance of someone who is comfortable with himself.

The funny thing is over time faking confidence will actually lead towards to developing this kind of attitude.

Step 4- Talk to everyone around you

Now the key to becoming confident ALL the time is to engage everyone you meet in conversations. As you probably know, a lack of confidence is caused by an inability to become comfortable around the people we encounter in our lives.

The only way to overcome this is consistently start talking to people you meet. Ultimately the more you do this the quicker you'll develop superior confidence around women.

Step 5- Give off positive energy

Your final step to becoming a superiorly confident male is to give off positive energy everywhere you go. By being an energetic and fun person, you'll become somebody who women WANT to be around.

Just remember that energy and enthusiasm is something which should be shared with everyone near you. It's kind of like karma- the more positive things you do, the more it'll be returned back to you.

Superior confidence doesn't come naturally for many men. However if you learn how to develop and control it, you'll become the kind of guy who ALL women want to be around.

All you have to do is follow the five steps I've outlined in this article and you'll be on the road towards developing an incredible level of confidence.

How To Avoid Divorce

2007-03-12T06:10:00.001-07:00

When you are both standing at the altar with stars in your eyes and love in your hearts, it is difficult to think how differently things can be in a short time in the future. For some, that short time is measured in months or even weeks, and for others that time frame is measured in years. It is amazing to note the number of divorces that occur after a couple has been married for 25, 30, or even more years in today's society.

But in truth, except in extreme cases, chances are high that at least one of you, if not both of you, really do not want a divorce. A divorce has a permanence about it that neither one of you want to face. There will be ramifications from family members, friends, your church or synagogue, at your place of employment, and you just really do not want all those hassles. You need to be asking yourself if a divorce is really what you want, or if there are some things that you could and should be doing differently, looking at from a different perspective, and taking a more subjective viewpoint with. After all, you realized a long time ago that marriage is a set of compromises, and more often than not, a simple conversation about those compromises will clearly show that one or the other of you, and mostly likely both of you, are not living up to those compromises.

Divorce usually becomes a situation when two people who were once very close, perhaps even soul mates, have become separated. Perhaps not separated physically, but separated in terms of being mentally on the same page with the same goals and the same objectives. So digging a little deeper, the root cause is almost always communications, or rather, a LACK of communication between the two of you. So would increased communication get you back on the same page again? A surprisingly high number of cases, after counseling, report that the answer to that question is yes.

Like anything else, communication is a two way street. One person cannot do all the talking and the other one do all the listening. Talking is a skill that most of us are born with, but very few of us have really mastered, or even tried to master the fine art of listening. You need to listen to what your partner is saying, and value that input since that is what they are thinking, that is what they are at right now. They are probably giving you clues, like a road map, in terms of how to get back on the same page as you are on.

First, determine what has caused you to stop communicating effectively. In today's world, the answer to that is frequently the fact that both of you are working full time, and at the end of the day, since you both put so much of yourself into your job, you have very little energy left over to devote to your relationship. It goes without saying that such a situation is not good and will inevitably without fail be detrimental to your relationship. Make an effort to save some of your energy to communicate with your spouse after a long hard day at work. It may actually help you to unwind, instead of rerunning the day's hassles in your mind, to put those things out of your mind and concentrate on something else, like your spouse, what they did today, and what was important in their day. Showing interest in the other is always a step closer towards effective communication.

For some couples, however, this is not enough. They have drifted too far apart for too long of a time to be able to effectively reestablish communication between them. There are more considerations you should be thinking about before the answer of divorce should be considered, however, all of which should be very seriously considered prior to deciding that divorce is the only viable answer, because in a surprising number of cases, divorce was only one of many viable options.

Be a St. Patrick's Day Lover!

2007-03-10T12:34:00.001-08:00

The time has come to celebrate our Irish roots once again! Don't have Irish roots? Celebrate them anyway! Come drink a pint of beer or two and enjoy some corned beef (we'll call the cabbage optional). Whether you are a man or woman, there are lots of ways to put on your Irish game face and have some sexy fun on Saint Patty's Day.

For Men

• If you want your lady to dress up, maybe you should start it. Buy her the sexy green negligee you want her to wear, and pick up a pair of sexy green undies for yourself as well.

• If you can cook at all, learn how to prepare an Irish feast. Bonus points if you cook naked, or wearing only an apron.

For Women

• Buy a sexy green dress and flaunt it for him. You know he wants you!

• Color your down-there hair green for a sexy surprise that will have him laughing, or paint a shamrock somewhere naughty for him to find.

• Actually wear the green negligee he bought you. He did go to all that effort!

For Couples

• Some whipped cream in a bowl and some green food dye makes body paint. Write sexy messages on each other's bodies, or just take turns drawing shamrocks and licking them off. Be careful around the face, though, as the dye might sometimes stick around for a few days.

• Put on some Irish music and listen to it together. If you like it, enjoy it, and if not, well, enjoy making fun of it as a couple.

• Four words: Kiss me, I'm Irish!

• Some Irish whiskey or some delicious gourmet chocolates might be just the thing to loosen you up for the evening.

• Kiss every time you see a shamrock!

With these tips and tricks and a little effort and creativity on your part, you can make this Saint Patrick's Day one that is full of sex and romance for the both of you. Get back to your roots and have a little fun as well, and you will have a great day for the both of you to remember.

If you really love the way that this year turns out, you can even turn Saint Patrick's Day into a romantic tradition for the both of you!

Rhode Island Divorce- Avoid Commingling Your Assets By Mistake!

2007-03-08T06:42:00.001-08:00

Rhode Island Divorce comes with some interesting questions of law, especially when it comes to property, real estate, personal property and otherwise.

One concept that everyone going through a Rhode Island divorce should be aware of is the principle of "commingling".

This can, and sometimes is, a very arguable concept in a Rhode Island Divorce proceeding and the purpose of this blog post is only to make you aware of its significance. You shouldn't base any decisions on this posting. Just be aware that this concept exists and that it could affect various items of property that you do have that may be subject to equitable distribution in your marriage.

Generally speaking, the principle of "Commingling" takes into account the idea that if you have something that you have thought of as "yours". . . for instance, something that is either pre-marital that you own or a gift or an inheritance that you received, and you treat that property in such a way that it was either used by you and your spouse or perhaps if it even was intended that you and your spouse both use it and have the benefit of it, then you have taken something that was separate and distinct that was YOURS and you have now commingled it with your spouse such that it has now become a marital asset. Once the court determines that something is a marital asset, it has lost its individual character and it is now subject to equitable distribution in your Rhode Island divorce action.

What does that mean practically speaking? Your spouse is entitled to claim that he or she is entitled to part of that asset or part of its value and you may have no way of stopping him or her from doing so.

Commingling is hard to prevent. You must usually take fairly extreme measures to isolate the item from your spouse completely. No contribution, no usage, no payment of storage fees for the item, no cleaning of the item, NOTHING.

The end result. If you want to truly protect something that you have from being considered part of your marital estate should you ever be faced with a divorce proceeding, get a pre-nuptual agreement at least as to those few things. An understanding spouse will realize that all you are doing is protecting a family heirloom or whatever the item may be and not that you anticipate anything other than being with him or her forever.

Teenage Dating: 10 Tips for Parents

2007-03-06T14:23:00.001-08:00

Dating among teenagers is a reality and seen by some as a right of passage from childhood to adolescence. Adolescence is also a time when your child wants to fit in, belong and be accepted. Parents must set appropriate boundaries to help their teenager come through this very challenging developmental stage.

1. Decide if your teenager is responsible and emotionally mature enough to handle dating.

2. Look at your teenager's track record. Do they have numerous instances of lying, breaking rules, and not following through on commitments or promises? Past behaviors although not a 100% are strong indicators of future behavior.

3. Discuss which persons and places are off limits.

4. Discuss in advance which dates require adult supervision or chaperones.

5. Know who your teenager will be dating before they ring the doorbell on the first date and have contact information.

6. Set the night(s) on which your teenager can go out on a date.

7. Set an appropriate curfew time and make your teenager stick to it. Decide with your teenager consequences for curfew violations. Research shows that most children and teenagers set much tougher consequences than their parents.

8. Let your teenager know that under no circumstances are they to drink and drive. It is also important to stress to them that they are also not to get into the car with someone who plans to drive after drinking. Tell them to call home for a ride regardless of the hour and no questions will be asked.

9. Be open and frank with your teenager regarding dating and sex. Discuss safer safe practices including appropriate condom and birth control use.

10. Ask your teenager if they are having sex. Remember most teenagers are afraid to be honest with their parents for fear of their reaction. So don't ask if you really don't want to hear the answer.

Living Well is the Best Revenge

2007-03-04T14:13:00.001-08:00

Once upon a time there was a divorce group for men and women that was a small part of a non-profit organization called Second Chance in Fremont, California. It was an extraordinary divorce group because the man who led the group was an extraordinary man. His real name was Skylar Moon. He had a Masters degree in psychology and a Masters degree in education, including post graduate work at the Kempler Institute of Psychology. When Skylar walked into a room, people turned around and stared at him with fascination because he had an immediately commanding presence. He was over six feet tall, he usually wore a leather sports jacket, dress shirt (but no tie) and jeans, and he always wore the same jaunty flat leather cap which partially covered his bald head. He often had a cigarillo either between his lips or held between his fingers as if he was about to smoke it. But he never lit it. Skylar looked like a skinny, bald, clean shaven version of Jimi Hendrix. His remarkable personality had a significant positive impact on everybody who had the good fortune to meet him.

New members of the divorce group were always in various stages of emotional devastation. Skylar was very gracious when he welcomed people into the group and he made them feel comfortable by introducing them to the other members and letting them know that they had just joined a group of new friends. But Skylar was a unique group leader because he fearlessly crossed over the line that the psychological profession has drawn in terms of restricting a therapist's interaction to non-judgmental and unemotional empathic listening. He practiced a kind of emotional shock therapy that worked time after time. Typically, he would interrupt a regular group member's sad tale of woe and say, "We've all heard this same old story one too many times. You're like an old record that's stuck in a groove and repeating the same line over and over again. You're STUCK. You're standing in your own bucket of excrement and complaining about how much it stinks. Do you want to know why you don't get out of that bucket? (not waiting for an answer) It's because you're petrified with fear of what's outside the bucket. You've grown accustomed to your own stench and you're comfortable with it. When are you going to make a decision to change your life?" The usual reaction to his confrontation was stunned silence. People did not know how to react to something like that. But the next time they spoke, they would give Skylar all kinds of reasons why it would be so difficult, if not impossible, for them to resolve their financial, emotional, and legal issues. Skylar would interrupt their defensive maneuvering and say, "Be quiet. Just think about what I've told you. I'll come back to you when you have something positive to say."

Men often complained bitterly about the horrible things their spouses were doing to them and about how badly they were being hurt. Skylar would say, "Why does that surprise you? She hates you. She doesn't even like you. She won't even walk on the same side of the street with you. You're acting like a maladjusted child who is clinging to its mother's leg. I'll tell you what she is doing to you. She is kicking you, and she is going to continue to kick you harder and harder until you hurt so badly that you stop clinging to her leg and let go of her. Your marriage is OVER. You need to understand that because you will not be able to move on with your life until you do." Long term group members always told the new members, "Listen to Skylar, he knows what he's talking about. It took me (x number of years) to figure all this out but I'm very glad that I followed Skylar's advice." Skylar told everybody, "The best thing you can do is create a new and better life for yourself. Nobody is going to do that for you. You can never go back. Unless you're a masochist and you actually enjoy pain, you have no alternative but to go forward. Most of you are going sideways and unfortunately you're not going to move on with your life until you reach the point where you wake up one morning and say to yourself 'I can't stand this pain. I simply cannot go on doing what I've been doing for one more day.' That's when you will begin to make the changes in your life that you've been afraid of making. But here's the good news. Create a new and better life for yourself and someday you'll discover that living well is the best revenge."

There is a transcendent truth underlying Skylar's concept that living well is the best revenge, but living well should not have revenge as its primary motive. Living well by enjoying each and every day to the fullest possible extent is one of the important things that life is all about, and that concept requires no justification. However, when your ex finds out that you are living better than you did before you were ejected, the knowledge will usually cause them great discomfort and if you have any residual feelings of anger, you will feel even happier about how well you are doing. Living better than you did before does not necessarily require a lot of money. One way to do it is to move to a nicer location than the one where you lived when you were married. It's a good idea to move away from a place that contains too many bad memories. Consider moving to the place where your ex always wanted to live, or consider relocating to somewhere you always wanted to live. Treat yourself well. Eat well, Have fun. Make new friends. Enjoy life in every possible way. The information about how well you are living and how much fun you are having will filter back to your ex and you will know it. One last bit of Skylar's advice is worth mentioning here. He used to tell people "Fake it 'til you make it." That's an expression used by Alcoholics Anonymous but it applies to this situation as well because even if things do not work out for you immediately, that's information your ex does not need to have.

Skylar Moon died in 2004. There are countless people who will never forget this man, and they will also not forget how much they benefited from being in his divorce group. This author is one of those people. He is currently living happily ever after in paradise.

Why Men Fantasize About Angelina Jolie And What You Can Learn From Her

2007-03-03T06:09:00.001-08:00

No it's not because she is damn pretty (Jen by societal standards is prettier) and no, it's not because she is a mother (men fantasized about Jolie long before motherhood) and no it's not because she adopts babies from "third world" countries, Angelina Jolie is the sexiest woman alive because she has found that balance between her feminine and masculine energies. She can be both masculine and she can be feminine in a very sexy way - and she knows it!

We find people like Jolie really fascinating because our Western culture tends to believe in "tender" femininity and "tough" masculinity and she has both which is something considered "extra-ordinary!"

In our Western culture, women are supposed to be more modest, understanding, sensitive, tender, nurturing, intuitive, emotional, passive, indecisive, impulsive, sentimental, and concerned with beauty. Men are supposed to be aggressive, tough, analytical, emotionally detached, ambitious, and focused on power and domination. Masculinity and femininity are seen as something that resides outside of our own selves and which can only be attained through hard work (dress, hair, body and stylishness). People have this notion of being successful or not successful at being masculine or feminine and spend a great deal of effort attaining it.

African cultures and all ancient cultures have a different take on what is masculine and what is feminine. African philosophies recognize that every person is born with qualities of the opposite sex within her or him, not simply in the biological sense, but also in the psychological and psychosexual sense of attitudes, feelings, dreams and desires. If a man or woman is well adjusted and harmoniously balanced, the feminine traits of the man and the masculine traits of the woman are both expressed. And in these cultures to say one is an "ideal/real man" or "ideal/real" woman would be to say one is an ideal human being with a good balance of both sexual energies.

The balance of these energies basically means men need women in their lives to see the reflection of their own feminine energies and women need men in their lives to see the reflection of their own masculine energies, but more than that we need each other as a connection to the unknown. Without this connection we are crippled in dealing with many aspects of our romantic and sexual lives.

After working as a dating/sexual confidence with many men and women, I personally believe that the Western social construct of what is masculine and what is feminine (and which has nothing to do with what is natural or with reality) is the root of many of the problems men and women face in relationships (i.e. battle of the sexes) . Both men and women are taken in and fooled by the charm of a fake masculinity and fake femininity which ultimately fails to bring the relationship they are truly looking for and dreaming about. When men and woman come together instead of mirroring love, inner harmony, understanding, passion and joy (and all the other traits of "ideal" human being); they mirror expectations that are unrealistic at best and dysfunctional at worst..

Perhaps you are a female with a tremendous amount of feminine energy that makes you vulnerable to male exploitation, abuse, mistreatment, rejection and degradation, what you need to do to change your SEXUAL AURA is to consciously express more of your masculine energy. Or perhaps you have a tremendous amount of masculine energy that has made you successful in a "man's world" but unsuccessful in romantic or sexual word, either way, change your SEXUAL AURA by consciously expressing more of your feminine energy.

Take advantage of your innate, in-born sexual magnetism and charm your way into the heart of an equally "balanced" man! I have, and so have many of my clients, without changing a thing about their physical appearance!

The Art Of A French Kiss: What It Is And How To Perfect A French Kiss That Makes Them Melt

2007-03-01T17:23:00.001-08:00

If you are learning how to kiss you may have heard of the term French kiss. There is an art to French kissing. This kiss will discuss what a French kiss is and how you go about perfecting the art of French kissing.

What Is A French Kiss?

A French kiss is a type of kiss that involves moving your tongue in and out of your kissing partner's mouth as they perform the same type of tongue kissing with you. The French kiss does not come easily to a lot of people. Also, if a French kiss is performed badly you may never get the chance to kiss that person again. That's why it's critical that you learn how to French kiss and French kiss well.

You may be surprised to hear that 9 out of 10 women feel that they don't get kissed enough in their day to day lives. It goes without saying that one physical gesture that will make a woman melt in your arms is planting an exquisite French kiss on her lips.

There are many kisses that people share every day of their lives. There are simple kisses of the cheeks, Eskimo kisses and the amusing air kiss, just for starters. What makes a French kiss so appealing is that it is a very intimate encounter because it requires two people inserting one another's tongues into each other's mouths.

Here are a few tricks to giving the perfect French kiss.

There is no point even trying a French kiss unless you are relaxed, comfortable and not apprehensive. Unfortunately, as with many things in life your kissing partner will be able to tell how you are feeling inside from the feel of your French kiss. For this reason you need to be completely relaxed and not focused on anything else at that moment except French kissing the person you desire and giving it all you've got.

French kissing is a lot like dancing, one of you leads while the other follows. For this reason to give a perfect French kiss you must be in tune with the person you are kissing. You must be able to read their body language to find out if they want more of the French kiss you are doing or less. If they press their body closer towards you then they are very much "into you". However, if they are moving their body away from you and pushing their body away from you with their arms they are not comfortable with what's going on at all.

If you have never done a French kiss before you may be wondering to yourself how two people French kiss like that without bumping noses with one another. When you move in to French kiss your partner tilt your head gently to one side and allow them to do the same. Press your lips gently against theirs and feel how they react to the kiss. Then turn the kiss to a French kiss by ever so slightly opening your lips and slowly and softly entering their mouth with your tongue. Search for their tongue with yours and touch it, almost shyly at first. Again, watch for their body language. If they are making noises or motions with their body which show that they like what you are doing then expand on the French kiss, be more confident with your tongue, keep it firm and adore one another with your tongues. If it's your first French kiss together then make your kiss a little shorter than you would like it to be so that you can then look into one another's eyes and French kiss one another some more.

A French kiss is a very passionate kiss and you should allow the passion to flow throughout your whole body.

Of course it's important for you to remember that you do have to breathe during a French kiss so you can pull away slightly and breathe or breathe through your nose.

The key to delivering a beautiful French kiss that makes your partner melt is being confident in what you are doing. A French kiss takes practice. It's also important to read as much as you can about the French kiss so that you know when you give one that it will be fantastic. There is nothing worse than French kissing someone who is terrible at it. I've been there, and I never saw that person again... and that is definitely not how you want your French kiss to end.

Giving Your Woman Tantric Orgasms Over and Over Again

2007-02-28T11:19:00.001-08:00

Giving your woman tantric orgasms over and over again

Men, pay attention to this article! You need to know how to give your woman tantric orgasms because she will give you whatever you want if you know how to do this. Now I will be honest, I can only give you a few tips in this article, but these tips alone can raise your sex life to new heights.

First, learn your woman. More often than not men are only worried about getting theirs and what pleases them. They don't take the time to really tune into what their woman like and what drives her wild. I don't know how many women I have met that have never had a great sexual experience with a man.

The kicker is the men they were with never knew that their woman was not satisfied. Most women don't want to have to tell you that they are not getting what they want. They want you to take the time to figure it out. That is your job.

Second, slow things down and make the foreplay last longer. The whole key to getting your woman to orgasm is to get her really hot and bothered before the actual act of intercourse. If she is really turned on and ready to go and you keep teasing her, this will create suspense and a build up. When you finally do start to have intercourse she will orgasm faster and much harder than ever before.

My last hint is to simply listen to your woman. Ask her questions and listen. She will be happy to give you pointers on what she likes as long as you ask and you take an interest. Plus you will get benefits from this because when you show that you want to please your woman she will be so willing to start trying the new things that you are learning that you will be having more sex and doing more exciting things than ever before.

The one thing you have to remember is that your woman wants to please you. When you please her and really show that you want her to be happy she will be more willing to learn how you really like to be pleased. Share a new learning experience with your woman and give her tantric orgasms every night.

I Remember My Love Relationships; Where They Really Love?

2007-02-27T05:12:00.001-08:00

Dottiedee here sharing, "I Remember" as this is my story dear to my heart, may we all find our lesson contained within the words on this page.

I grew up in South Central Nebraska on a farm. I had been brought up in a Christian family which attended church often, it came first in our lives. Every thing we did revolved around church and being there whenever we possibly could be.

Now, years later, after giving up some of the legalistic ways of the church and living life as an experience rather than something that must fit in a mold given to me as a child, I find living in the land of happiness very rewarding.

Remembering how as a child everything was to be done correct, right or perfect to be acceptable to the denominator, our church and society, putting a lot of stress on people to meet expectations or to have expectations that couldn't be met.

We can expect so much out of our love relationships.

I was speaking with a new widow tonight, discussing how she misses her loved one, yet how they lived in a love/hate relationship which now has ended, leaving her lost without a male to go back and forth with loving or hating.

She is pulled by not wanting to live the rest of her life alone, as she is still young, yet she doesn't want to enter into another love/hate relationship.

What if a love/hate relationship is really a dominator/dominated living together unhappily not knowing how to end the domination and become true partners in a loving partnership?

What if we really didn't have to have two sides to our relationships?

What if we could have a common ground, an equal equity, fair voting love relationship?

What if we could learn to communicate knowing each had good ideas, could make wise choices and we could really respect and trust each other with no fear of being the dominator or the dominated one?

What if we could truly share our hearts without the dominance factor or the rule and the "obey" factor entering into the picture?

What if we could look at our marriages as the coming together of equals and not dominator and one to be dominated?

What if we could really, in true love, create a money distribution which would be fair, honest, and equal for all concerned in our families?

What if we would sit down with open eyes and open hearts to examine our habits with spending, saving, and money management, what would this look like for us?

What if making plans ahead of time for our purchases and create the cash to do so to eliminate paying out our cash for interest, how would this benefit our families?

What if doing the above could replace the love/hate dominator/dominated relationships we are raising our children into day?

What if we could drop the 70% of adult Americans with blemished credit and the habits which creates poor credit to only 10% what would this do for our families?

Would making these changes have an effect on our divorce rates, on our alcohol and gambling addictions?

What if we gave up our attitude that nothing can be done about it, and we set out to one day at a time make a difference in our relationships based on dominator/dominated and created true love partnership relationships?

What if we could have relationships based on pure love, love for each other with out an agenda?

The Female Dilemma

2007-02-25T19:26:00.001-08:00

When they called me a "Tomboy" I was confused. I knew I was a girl. Why were they referring to me as a boy? It is true that I loved to climb trees and was a superb athlete. The boys in the neighborhood always wanted me on their teams. It is also true that besides being strong and coordinated, I was very courageous. I rode my bike very fast and curbs were no obstacles. Some may say I could have just as well been riding a horse.

But I was still a girl, even though I loved my jeans and my two gun holsters for my cap pistols. I lived in a low income neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York. My tough front protected me from appearing like an easy victim for the other gang members. I was the leader of our gang which consisted of two younger boys and me.

But I was still confused. I did not understand why they did not call me an active female, or an athletic girl. Instead they labeled me as a "Tomboy." Who is Tom, anyway?

Later in my teens, I was told, "If you want to have a boyfriend, then let him win the tennis match." How absurd. I once did have a boyfriend who was very upset when I triumphed. The next time we played, I let him win by a close margin. I felt frustrated. It was no fun to focus on his ego instead of being the best I could be. That was the last time I was willing to play that game.

Later on in life my girlfriend was upset with me because I had a higher score in bowling than her boyfriend. She said, "Couldn't you let him win so that he could feel better?" My stomach sunk once again. I was definitely getting the message that it was more important to be weaker than men, than to be myself.

What a dilemma. How could I let myself be the strong, capable woman I was, and still be accepted as a female? I looked around my environment and saw many women playing the role of a female that they were taught from the time they could understand. Be weak. Be soft and emotional. Men like you to cry when you are scared or hurt. Then they feel strong and needed. Men love to take care of women, so pretend to be weak and incapable. Do not ever show anger or too much competency or strength-it is not ladylike.

When I became a Marriage, Family Therapist, many female clients complained to me about their dilemma. Many of them wanted to drop their weak and incapable facade. They were miserable because they felt that they had to give themselves up in order to be with a man. They had hidden desires to follow their dreams, to go to college, or to begin a business. The women told me that they were afraid that their husbands would be threatened by their success.

The frustrated women admitted that they were feeling very resentful and expressed their discontent covertly. Some of them put on lots of weight. Others denied their spouses affection. And still others cooked terrible meals, if any, and became disastrous housewives. They also complained constantly-their husbands referred to them as nags. Another way they expressed their anger for being stifled was to spend all of their husbands' hard earned money, and even get them into debt with the credit card companies.

I helped these unhappy women (as well as myself) overcome the dilemma we were all experiencing. I accomplished this by explaining to them that the only way they were going to be happy and healthy was to be who they really are. I encouraged them to follow their dreams in order to stop making themselves and their husbands miserable. I helped them to accept the truth that it was important for them to be human. That is, to feel all of their feelings and to express them constructively. They looked relieved when I assured them that they could be strong and capable, and a soft and loving woman.

Then I asked the women to bring their husbands in for a session. I encouraged the clients to tell their loved ones what their truth really was, and what they wanted to do with their lives besides being a wife and mother. It was interesting to see the surprised look on the women's faces when their husbands responded in a very positive way, and encouraged them to feel more like an equal, and to have equal opportunities in their relationship.

It is true that they were somewhat concerned about the logistics of juggling all of their responsibilities, but there was a real earnest desire to work it all out the best way for all concerned. The men wanted their wives to be happy, realized the consequences when they were miserable, and saw how they would benefit if their spouses had the freedom to be themselves.

At that point, I acknowledged the men for their mature love. I told them that in my opinion, when you truly love someone you want them to be happy. I also acknowledged the women for having the courage to be themselves and for being wonderful role models for their children. Their daughters need not struggle with the female dilemma.

How To Get Her In The Mood In 3 Easy Steps

2007-02-24T13:18:00.001-08:00

You are about to learn an easy 3 step process for getting her in the mood

Let's dive in.

Get Her In The Mood STEP 1:

The first objective is get her in a "happy excited" mood. In other words, don't waste any time thinking about getting her turned on until you can successfully get her happy.

One of the quickest and easiest ways of doing this is by talking about happy times that you too have shared.

If it is a woman you just met, then get her to talk about something that will make her happy.

Let the good memories absorb into her mind. You will know when you succeeded when she is talking and smiling uncontrollably.

Get Her In The Mood STEP 2:

The second objective is to think about 'what version of you' have succeeded the best with women.

You may discover that women have always responded best to you when you were Serious-You or Funny-You, or whatever...

Once you have found it, that is the 'persona' you are going to take on.

It can be tricky because the Funny-You may be best at getting women in a happy mode. But the Serious-You may be best at getting them in a more intimate mindstate.

So keep that in mind

Get Her In The Mood STEP 3:

You are going to get her to perceive you in a more sexual way by increasing your sexual value.

And your ability to increase your Sexual Value in a short amount of time is based 100% on how skilled you are at capturing "Sexual Perception".

Because it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that a person's perceptions about anything can change in a split second.

In fact I remember going to a computer store. The salesman showed me a particular computer and I busted out laughing... "You don't expect me to buy this do you (sarcastically)?" About 14 minutes later I ended up proudly walking out of the store with that same computer.

It doesn't take long to change a person's perception.

Picking Up On A Beautiful Woman

2007-02-23T07:12:00.001-08:00

Let's face it, every man wants a beautiful woman by
his side. This has held true throughout history. Society,
the media, and even our own peer group has taught us
that picking up on a beautiful is reserved only for the
wealthy, the famous, or the really good-looking men. For
the most part this is true. Yet there are a small
percentage of men that have figured out what it really
takes to pick up on a beautiful woman.

If picking up a beautiful woman was easy, more men
would do it right? Unless you're a natural with women, this
can be one of the most difficult things you can do. A lot
of men look for the latest pick up lines, routines, or want
to know what topics would make for good conversation.
Some men even go so far as talking about their cars,
their career, the big screen television, or their home. What
they don't realize is that talking about these things sounds
insecure, desperate, and shallow. It also attracts the
wrong kind of woman.

My opinion on this is I want a woman who wants to be
with me for the way I make her feel and that she appreciates
my individual qualities that make me who I am. I don't
want to try and impress her because of what I drive, what
I live in, or any of the material possessions that I own. Men
who have to resort to that have no "game". By "game" I'm
talking about the different skill sets a man has to have in
order to approach a woman, start a conversation, build
rapport, build desire within her, and make himself the prize
to be chased and not the other way around.

Picking up on a beautiful woman all starts with the
foundation to your game. To have tight game or a solid
skill set to pick up on women just about anywhere you have
to have a solid base to work from. You would never build
a house on a weak, mud foundation, you would build it on
a solid cement foundation. The taller and bigger the
building, the deeper and stronger your foundation has to
be. So think of it this way. If you want to approach and
game a beautiful woman who is a 6 on a scale of 10, ten
being the most beautiful and 5 being of average looks, then
your foundation needs to be solid. If you want to approach
and pick up on a woman who is a 9 or a 10 you better have
a deeper and stronger foundation.

So what do I mean by having a solid foundation or solid
game? Let's break it down into a managable, basic core
of skill sets to focus on. The good news is that you
don't have to focus on all of them at the same time. Here
are just a few you need to be aware of:

1. The Approach
2. Building Rapport
3. Building Attraction
4. Building Natural Confidence
5. Conversation Skills
6. Obtaining Her Contact Information
7. Phone / Internet / E-mail Game
8. Setting Up The First Date
9. The First Kiss
10. Increasing Your Social Network

While we don't have the room here to talk about all of
them in great detail, let's talk about the first one to give
you an idea what I'm talking about. The Approach is a
huge part of your foundation because without approaching
a woman, you can never build rapport, which means you'll
never build enough attraction to obtain her contact
information. This is true whether you're online meeting
women or if you're in a bar, nightclub, super market, coffee
shop, bookstore, or where ever you find women.

A lot of men suffer from approach anxiety. Usually they
are thinking about the potential rejection or feel they
don't know what to say. The problem is that approaching
women is a learned skill, which means you have to do it
and do it often to refine your craft. Unless you approach
at least a dozen women this coming weekend, you're not
going to get better. "If you're a beginner you should
start off approaching at least one woman per day that you
do not know," says dating coach Rod Cortez. "Within a
90 day period, you should be approaching no less than
25 women per week."

This is now commonly referred to as "The Rule Of 25".
The reason why men are generally not good at approaching
women is that they don't do enough of it. Now let's
take a look at building rapport. One way men blow this is
that they come off as too needy, insecure, or desperate.
These kind of behaviors do not build any kind of rapport.
There are dozens of ways to build rapport. One common
way is to use a combination of your sense of humor,
confidence, and the ability to playfully tease when the
opportunity presents itself. When you treat a woman almost
like one of the boys or "like your bratty little sister", says
Dating Expert David DeAngelo, you are communicating that
her beauty does not intimidate you. You are also subtley
communicating that you are used to dealing with pretty
women.

Picking up on a beautiful woman does take commitment
and hard work, but here is the interesting thing: over
time you will find it getting easier and easier. After a
few months you will look back and wonder why you ever
worried about rejection or not sure on what to say.

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2007-02-14T18:32:00.000-08:00

HDTV Connection Kit by Cables To Go -38067

List Price:	~~$99.99~~
You Save:	$65
Final Price:	$34.99

Description :
Why confuse yourself searching for all of the required HDTV cables you'll need? The Cables to Go HDTV Connection Kit is a hassle-free solution that contains any cable needed to connect your HDTV to your new or existing Audio/Video system. This kit is an economic alternative to purchasing multiple cables individually. Get the maximum performance from your new Plasma, LCD, DLP, DVD Player, Satellite Receiver, or HDTV Cable box by using High-Performance cables. All cables feature high quality construction materials and maximum shielding to gurantee a quality picture and sound.

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Large Square Baker, Blue

2007-02-12T18:43:00.000-08:00

Cuisinart Electric Sandwich Grill - WMSW2

List Price:	~~$29.99~~
You Save:	$13.25
Final Price:	$16.74

Description :
Using a double sided nonstick surface the Cuisinart WMS-W2 Grilled Sandwich Maker quickly warms cheese, chicken, and cold-cut sandwiches in a jiffy.

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Logitech Cordless Desktop EX110

2007-02-10T18:46:00.000-08:00

Creative Zen V Plus 4GB Digital Multimedia Device - Audio Player, Video Player, Audio Recorder, Voice Recorder, FM Tuner, Photo Viewer - 1.5" OLED - 4GB Flash Memory -70PF2072001Y1

List Price:	~~$179.99~~
You Save:	$50
Final Price:	$129.99

Description :
Product GuidesDigital MusicThe ZEN V Plus player was designed for people like you - those who walk a step or two ahead of the pack. So don't be surprised when people take notice of your cool, colorful music, photo and video player. Tell them you carry up to 2,000 songs with you. Tell them you can watch video on the go. Show them just a handful of the photos you've stored on the pocket sized powerhouse. And tell them there's even more but they'll have to get their own.

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Uniden GMR-1038/2 GMRS/FRS 2-Way Radio Dual Pack with 10-Mile Range -GMR1038-2

2007-02-07T18:23:00.000-08:00

Logitech Premium Notebook Headset -980445-0403

List Price:	~~$59.99~~
You Save:	$15.02
Final Price:	$44.97

Description :
Designed specifically for the needs of notebook users, the Premium Notebook Headset features a behind-the-head, adjustable design that folds flat for travel. The perfect headset for PC calling, Internet voice chat, gaming, and musicincluding most MP3 playersit offers high-performance audio, a noise-cancelling microphone, and in-line volume and mute controls.

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Logitech 980397-0403 Wireless Headphones for iPod, Gray

2007-02-05T18:30:00.000-08:00

Ornament Hanging Kit and Light Tester

List Price:	~~$21.99~~
You Save:	$15.54
Final Price:	$6.45

Description :
Does the thought of putting up the Christmas lights and ornaments make you cringe? Our convenient Hanging Kit and Light Tester saves time and patience during the Yuletide season. Whether they are on the roof or in the tree, our reliable device helps test mini lights for connectivity. Simply sweep the tester along the strand of lights. The tester lights up and beeps over working bulbs. Display your favorite decorations, even as far as 10 feet high, with our handy ornament hanger.

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Coby TFDVD7100 Portable DVD Player

2007-02-02T18:38:00.000-08:00

Embroidered Peasant Top

List Price:	~~$19.99~~
You Save:	$11.5
Final Price:	$8.49

Description :
Designed with the modest coverage you desire. Keyhole opening, beaded tie, floral and butterfly embroidery; 26" L. Taped shoulder seams for shape retention. Cotton/polyester knit.

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Search for 45142 and Add to Shopping cart for $9.99
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400-Thread-Count 100% Cotton Queen Sheet Set, Linen

2007-01-29T21:45:00.000-08:00

Dell Inspiron E1405 AMD Turion 64 X2 Dual-Core, TL-50, 15.4" WXGA TrueLife, 1GB RAM, 120GB, 8X CD/DVD Burner (DVD+/-RW) with double-layer DVD+R write capability, 802.11b/g, Windows Vista, 1yr Warrant

List Price:	~~$1199~~
You Save:	$395.8
Final Price:	$803.2

Description :
Its 14.1-inch widescreen display is packed into a compact design, so you can comfortably use your notebook on planes, trains or anywhere space is at a premium.

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Price shows you $739 before instant discount
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Select ' Processor ' to 'AMD Turion 64 X2 Dual-Core Mobile Technology TL-50 [add $50'
Select ' Operating System ' to 'FREE Upgrade to Genuine Vista Windows Home Premium with 1GB of memory'
Select ' LCD Panel ' to '15.4 inch Wide Screen XGA Display with TrueLife [add $10 '
Select ' Memory ' to '1GB DDR2 SDRAM at 533MHz, 2 Dimm [add $65'
Select ' Hard drive ' to '120GB 5400RPM SATA Hard Drive [add $90 '
Select ' Combo/DVD+RW Drives ' to '8X CD/DVD Burner (DVD+/-RW) with double-layer DVD+R write capability [add $40'
Select ' Battery ' to '53 WHr 6-cell Lithium Ion Primary Battery [add $10 '
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Kodak EasyShare V610 6MP Digital Camera with 10x Dual-Lens Optical Zoom

2007-01-26T20:18:00.000-08:00

Hamilton Beach Countertop Oven with Convection & Rotisserie

You Save:	$-79.88
Final Price:	$79.88

Description :
Feed a variety of appetites with the large-capacity Countertop Rotisserie/Convection Oven by Hamilton Beach. This all-in-one workhorse convection oven can handle a 5-lb chicken on the rotisserie, or two 12-inch round pizzas. With its easy-clean interior, and cooking functions ranging from bake and broil to convection and rotisserie, this oven has it all.

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Seiko Women's Watch SJB882

2007-01-23T20:55:00.000-08:00

6 LEDs & 1 Krypton Bulb HeadLamp with Adjustable Band, requires 3*AAA Battery not Included, Perfect for Garage use or Riding bike in the Dark

List Price:	~~$19.99~~
You Save:	$7
Final Price:	$12.99

Description :
This high-quality 1-Krypton Bulb & 6-LED adjustable headlamp provides you with long lasting, powerful and portable light at a great price. This headlamp is equipped with six super-high flux Luxeon 1-Watt LEDs, and one Krypton bulb capable of producing a beam that projects up to 100ft. The Luxeon 1W LEDs are 10x brighter than standard LEDs and will provide up to 80 hrs of runtime on 3 AAA batteries (not included).

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Canon MP460 All In One Photo Printer W/ 1.9in Co -1449B002

2007-01-20T21:04:00.000-08:00

Canon MP460 All In One Photo Printer W/ 1.9in Co -1449B002

List Price:	~~$129.99~~
You Save:	$41
Final Price:	$88.99

Description :
With one machine, you can print beautiful, long-lasting photos and laser-quality text. Copy important documents with results that are more faithful to your originals. And scan photos or forms, even thick notebooks. The 1.9" color LCD display lets you enhance images before you print for better pictures. Plus, you can print from your computer, or direct from memory cards, cameras, even camera phones!

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Linksys Cordless Internet Telephony Kit for Skype CIT200

2007-01-18T18:56:00.000-08:00

Wallace Riviera 53-Piece Flatware Set, Service for 8

List Price:	~~$250~~
You Save:	$180.01
Final Price:	$69.99

Description :
Stainless Steel; Made in China; 53pc flatware set. Service for 8 and a 5pc hostess set.; Included in Box: 8 Teaspoons, 8 Dinner Spoons, 16 Salad Forks, 8 Dinner Forks, 8 Dinner Knives. One Each: Tablespoon, Pierced Tablespoon, Cold Meat Fork, Sugar Spoon, Butter Knife.;

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Nikon Coolpix L4 Digital Camera - 4.0 Megapixels - 3x Optical Zoom - 4x Digital Zoom - 2" TFT Color LCD-25546

2007-01-15T05:42:00.000-08:00

Ethereal EHT Digital Coaxial Cable - 6.56ft - 1 x RCA, 1 x RCA - Audio Cable -EHT-D2

List Price:	~~$13.99~~
You Save:	$8
Final Price:	$5.99

Description :
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Santa Fe Quesadilla Maker

2007-01-11T06:26:00.000-08:00

Tramontina Lock-n-Drain 12pc Cookware Set

List Price:	~~$129.99~~
You Save:	$70.67
Final Price:	$59.32

Description :
Tramontina's high-quality 18/10 stainless steel cookware set features a smart "extra" for each pot - a handy strainer insert. Tri-ply bases ensure even, rapid heating without hot spots; riveted handles have soft-grip inserts for comfort and easy lifting.

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No-Touch Automatic Sensor Faucet Adapter

2007-01-08T07:02:00.000-08:00

Farberware Classic 5-Quart Covered Rectangular Buffet Casserole

List Price:	~~$100~~
You Save:	$65.01
Final Price:	$34.99

Description :
Quality 18/10 stainless steel construction for durability and exceptional beauty; Thick aluminum core base for even heat distribution; Dishwasher safe and oven safe to 350F / 180C; Lifetime Limited Warranty;

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Barbie Sweet Sounds Pet Shop

2006-12-22T01:11:00.000-08:00

Barbie Sweet Sounds Pet Shop

List Price:	~~$26.99~~
You Save:	$13.5
Final Price:	$13.49

Description :
BARBIE SWEET SOUNDS PET SHOP PLAYSET This playset comes alive with random animal sounds when you turn it on. Every time the girl opens the food bin it activates random animal sounds. There is a water-filled aquarium with fish that "swim", birdcage and bird, plus an area for smaller creatures. Barbie doll can groom and bathe the pets in a real working water basin! At feeding time girls can scoop "food pellets" to fill the pets' dishes! Lots of play pieces and accessories for girls to help Barbie doll manage her pet shop and care for its creatures.

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Ritek Ridata 1GB 150X Pro III Mini SD Card , with Mini SD Card Adapter, Minisize Secure Digital Flash Memory Card

2006-12-18T03:57:00.000-08:00

Ritek Ridata 1GB 150X Pro III Mini SD Card , with Mini SD Card Adapter, Minisize Secure Digital Flash Memory Card

List Price:	~~$39.99~~
You Save:	$18.49
Final Price:	$21.5

Description :
Meritline USB portable chargers are convenient to take along as a travel charger. It's compact size and light weight minimizes on travel bulk! With output connector of USB female head, this portable charger can be used with a USB sync cable to sync and charger your iPod, PDA or mobile phone.

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Ritek Ridata 4GB Secure Digital SD Card 150X High Performance with Free Card Reader

2006-12-14T03:34:00.000-08:00

Ritek Ridata 4GB Secure Digital SD Card 150X High Performance with Free Card Reader

Final Price:

$69.95

Description :
Ridata Secure Digital SD Card 150X is built to meet the security, capacity, performance and environmental requirements inherent in emerging image, video and audio consumer electronics devices.

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